Iingcebiso zokuziphatha okungcono
Abantwana abane-ADHD baphendule ngakumbi kwiindlela ezikhokelayo, ezilula, ezicacileyo. Oku kunceda ukuqinisekisa ukuphumelela ekulandeleni imiyalelo yakho-kwaye impumelelo ikhokelela kwi-raft yonke yeziphumo ezilungileyo.
Kutheni i-Chatty Instructions Musa ukusebenza ku-ADHD Kids
Umama uhlamba izitya kwisitya. Amanzi asebenzayo kwaye izitya ziyancipha. Umqolo wakhe uphendukile njengoko ekhwaza, "Joe, gqiba ukutya kwesidlo sakusasa, uze uhlambe amazinyo akho uze uthathe isikhwama sakho. Awufuni ukukhawuleza. O, kwaye ungakulibali ukubamba iphrojekthi yakho. Kufuneka namhlanje kwaye usebenze kanzima kuyo. Yibambe ngokucophelela kwiphepha lakho xa usesikolweni. Awufuni into eyenzekayo kuyo. "
Kumntwana one-ADHD, izikhokelo mhlawumbi zizwakala ngaphezulu:
"Joe, gqibela ukutya kwasekuseni ... into ethile ngebhasi ... blah, blah, blah."
Emva koko uJoe uphazamiseka ngomsindo wamanzi ogijima kwisitya, kwaye kumenza acinge ngokubhukuda, kwaye oko kwenza ukuba acinge ngexesha lasehlobo. Ukhangele phambili ukubhukuda nokudlala uMarco Polo echibini kunye nomntakwabo kunye nabahlobo bakhe. Uthemba ukuba uRandall akakho echibini kakhulu kweli hlobo ngenxa yokuba uRandall unobungozi. Le ntombazana kwinqanaba lezesayensi lifana nohlobo lwe-bossy,. UJoe udlalwa yiengcamango zakhe ezitshintshileyo kwaye akaqondi nokuba umama uthetha.
Iziphazamiso zomntwanakho kunye nokulungiswa ngaphandle akukho njongo, nangona kuba umzali kunokuxhatshaza. Ngexesha elide, elikhutshwayo, i-ADHD yomntwana ngokukhawuleza ifumanisa ngolwazi olugqithisiweyo. Amaphuzu abalulekileyo ozama ukumenza abe nzima ukwenza inkqubo, ingakumbi njengoko ephazamiseka yiengcamango zakhe okanye izinto ezenzeka kuye.
Kunokukwazi ukulandela ngempumelelo indlela yakho, uyaziphosa ngokupheleleyo. Oku kuseka kokubili ukukhungatheka, kwaye umisela umntwana ukuba angaphumeleli kunempumelelo.
Indlela yokunika izikhokelo ezicacileyo I-Kid yakho inokulandela ngokuphumelelayo
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezilula zokunyusa ukuthotyelwa komntwana wakho xa umnika isikhokelo.
Kananjalo ungafuna ukwabelana ngezi ngcebiso kunye notitshala wakho esikolweni.
- Xa unikeza izikhombisi, sondela eduze komntwana wakho kwaye unomdla ngokuthinta ihlombe lakhe okanye ingalo uze uthe igama lakhe.
Qinisekisa ukuba unxibelelwano lwemehlo nomntwana wakho njengoko unikela isikhokelo.
Nika imiyalelo elula, enokusebenza. Ngokomzekelo, tshela "Faka ifowuni yakho yesikolo kwipokethi yakho yencwadana," kunokuba "Ulungele isikolo."
Thetha ngokucacileyo ngelizwi eliqinileyo.
Ukuba ufuna ukunikezela ngcaciso ngaphambi kokuba unike isikhokelo. Umzekelo, "Sifanele sihambe ku-Grandma emva kwesonto namhlanje ukuze singadli ixesha lokutya kwakhe." Ukuba ufuna ukudlala ngeedys ku-Grandma, khetha oku kwaye unike zona ngoku. " Ukuba ulinda uze uthi emva kokunika umntwana wakho ulwalathiso, unokulibala umyalelo wakho wokuqala.
Emva kokuba unike isalathiso, linda imizuzwana embalwa kwaye uhlale ngumntwana wakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyagcina ingqalelo kulo msebenzi. Ukuba uyavumelana kwaye ulandele ngokufanelekileyo ngesikhokelo sakho, mdumise ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yomsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba uyayiqonda ngokucacileyo imiyalelo, cela ukuba aphindwe ngamagama akhe.
Ukuba umntwana wakho akahambelani, mnike i- IF ... LAPHO isitatimende esichaza izilindelo zakho kunye nemiphumo yokungavumelani. Umzekelo, "Ukuba awuyikufaka ifolda yakho esikhwameni sakho okwangoku ngoku, uya kulahleka imizuzu eyi-10 ekhompyutheni yakho." Ukuba umntwana wakho uyavumelana, mzukise. Ukuba akahambisani noko, landela ngokulahlekelwa yinto ethile , njengelungelo lekhompyutha.
Yiba njalo kwaye uzinzile endleleni yakho, kwaye uqhagamshelane nabanye abantu abadala ebomini bakho ukuze uqiniseke ukuba unika yonke imilayezo efanayo ngendlela efanayo.
UkuFunda okongeziweyo:
Iingcebiso zabazali kwi-ADHD Kids
Ukuzala Umntwana Wakho Odala
Iingcebiso zeSikolo ze-ADHD Kids
Isicwangciso seKhaya
Umthombo:
UHarvey C. Parker, PhD. I-ADHD Incwadi Yabazali: Isikhokelo Sabazali Bantwana Iiminyaka Zesi-2-12 kunye neNkcazo yokuKhathazeka kweMpilo. I-Specialty Press, Inc. 2008.