Ukuqala ukuya kwikholeji kuyonwabile, kodwa lixesha lokukhathazeka kunye nexhala-kwaye kungekudala, ukunyuka ekhaya. Abanye abantwana baziva bebuhlungu xa befika kuqala. Abanye bafumana iiveki ezimbalwa, emva kokuba i-adrenaline yokukhawuleza ifike. Kwaye abanye bafumana i-wallop xa bebuyela esikolweni emva kwexesha elide lobusika.
Kakade, ukwazi ukuba konke okulindelweyo akunakwenza kube buhlungu kubazali abanomfundi omtsha okanye umfundi oneminyaka yokuqala ukukhala ngezinyembezi kude nekhaya.
Kungokwemvelo, emva koko konke, ukulangazelela ukuqhelanisa nekhaya, abahlobo kunye nosapho xa uvele ungene kwiindawo ezikufutshane, iishedyuli ezintsha kunye nabantu abatsha. Ngoko ke umnxeba unokwenza umama noTata bazive benqwenela kakhulu ukukhupha okanye baqhube ekhaya. Le ngcamango embi ngezizathu ezininzi.
Kutheni Kuthatha ikhaya lekhaya lasekhaya eliyingozi
Ezi iiveki zokuqala xa abantwana bomntwana kunye nabantwana abafunda nabo befunda nabo banomdla kakhulu ekwenzeni abahlobo abatsha. Umntu omtsha omtsha uyamkelwa naliphi na itafile kwindawo yokutyela ekuqaleni; inyanga kwi-semester kwaye ezo tafile ziza kubamba amaqoqo aqinileyo. Ngoko inkwenkwe echitha loo maveki evekini ekhaya ayiyikuhlehlisa kuphela kwaye iyakwandisa iimvakalelo ezingenakuphepheka zokuhlukana, ilahlekile izinto eziza kwenza izinto zibe bhetele - abahlobo abatsha kunye nenqanaba elitsha lokuthuthuzela elitholakala kuphela ngokulikhupha kwaye ukuzinza.
Ngokuxhamla ekuhlanguleni, ulahla umntwana wakho ithuba lokuba uzilungiselele izinto, ufunde ukujamelana kwaye ube ngumdala ozimeleyo.
Luhlobo lwenkqubela ye-helicopter-ish ephumelela ngokuphambene nento oyenzayo. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na.
Iindlela eziphilileyo abazali abanokukunceda
- Ukuqinisekiswa: Qinisekisa umfundi wakho wekholeji ukuba oko akuvakalelwayo kuyindalo , kulindeleke - kwaye yabelane. Umntu ohlala naye, a bantwana phantsi kwehholo kunye nasesihlalweni saloo naluphi na iholo leentetho ezili-101 bonke ababelana ngayo loo mvakalelo. Mqinisekise ukuba uyamthanda, ukuba unokukwazi ukukwenza oku kwaye oku kuya kudlula.
- Izinto eziduduzayo kunye neephakheji zokunyamekela: Khumbula ezo zinto zithuthuzelayo ekhaya owamnceda ukupakisha? Yilapho loo ngubo epholileyo, iifoto zentsapho kunye nabahlobo, ibhere ye-teddy okanye isahluko okanye amabini ama-Magic magog afika ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba umntu wakho omtsha wasuka waya kwisikolo ngaphandle kokuphosa okuthandayo okanye umfanekiso wakhe obathandayo kunye nabantakwabo, baxakeke kwi-packaged care kunye namanye amakhukhi kwaye uyithumele. Enyanisweni, iphakheji lokunyamekela isibini okanye yesithathu iveki yesikolo yinto ehle kakhulu kuyo nayiphi na imeko. (Tuck kwi-DIY photo-festooned pencil cup).
- Ukuphuma kwenkampu: Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba aphume ekamelweni lakhe lokulala kwaye enze into - kwaye ubize kwaye akuxelele ngako. Mxelele ukuba ahlolisise idolophini yakhe entsha yekholejini, hlola indawo yokuzivocavoca, uthathe umntu ohlala naye kwaye uye kumboniso, okanye uhlawule ukuya eofisi yezabelo zangaphandle uze ubhalisele ukuphuma. I-RA idlala iqokelele iitoni zeentlalo zentlalo kunye nokuphuma kweqela kwiiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala zesikolo ngokuchanekileyo kwesi sizathu-kunceda abantwana bahlangane kunye nokunciphisa i-blues yasekhaya.
- Umoya omtsha, akukho zicatshulwa: Ukuphuma ngaphandle kuthetha umoya omtsha kunye nokuzivocavoca, okwenza umntu azive engcono. Kwaye abantwana abangekho ngaphandle, i-kayaking kunye nabahlobo abatsha okanye kwi-campus edibeneyo yokuzingela umkhwa wokukhwabanisa abanamathuba amaninzi okuvalelwa egumbini labo, abahlobo beetekisi abangabonakaliyo ukusuka ekhaya. Ukuhlala unxibelelana nabahlobo bamandulo kulungile, kodwa kungekhona ukuba kuthe kwintlawulo yokuhlangana nabantu abatsha.
- Iiveki ezintandathu zivakalisa: Kulula ukunyamezela ukwahlukana ukuba kukho ixesha elifanelekileyo, akunjalo? Akunangqondo ukuba iikholeji ezininzi zinokuhlanganyelanisa ukubuyisana kwabantu okanye iiveki zabazali malunga neiveki ezintandathu ukuya kwi-semester. Lixesha eligqibeleleyo lokutyelela umntu omtsha omtsha, ixesha elaneleyo lokumvumela ukuba ahlale kulo, kodwa kungekhona ukuziva ukuba akunakwenzeka. Ukuba unesiva se-blues esingenanto, iyakwenza uzive ungcono.
- Iimithombo zenkampu: Ukuba umntwana wakho unenkcitho enzima ngokwenene, kukho iinkcukacha ezimbini ezingakumbi. I-RA yakhe yokulala idinga ukuqeqeshwa ekuncedeni abafundi abatsha ukuba banamathele kwaye bajamelane nokugula ekhaya. Abacebisi beziko lezempilo le-campus banokunceda.