Ukugcina Ubumba Bakho Xa Amaqhosha Akho Aphoswa
Nazi izicwangciso zethu ezifanelekileyo zokulawula ingxabano, ukuxhatshazwa kunye nomsindo. Emva koko, ukuba ube ngumntu okhuselekileyo kunye onokuqikelelwa kulabo abakujikelezile emsebenzini nasemakhaya, kubalulekile ukuba unako ukugcina ukuzinza kwakho xa uvakalelwa ukuba amaqhosha akho aqhutywe. Amandla anokukunceda ukuba ufezekise iinjongo zakho kwishishini kunye neenjongo zakho zobuhlobo bakho.
Yabelana Ngeemvakalelo ezimbi kuphela kuMntu okanye kwifowuni
I-imeyile, imilayezo yomatshini yokuphendula, kunye namanqaku ayifani ngokungabonakaliyo ngenxa yobunzima begama lamagama. Yintoni evakalelwa ngathi ibhobho ephepheni inokuvakalelwa njengentsiba xa ihanjiswa kumntu.
I-Pepper Izimpendulo zakho ngeNkcazo, "Ndiyakuqonda"
Eli binzana liya kukuxhasa iinjongo zakho xa uxinzelelo luphakamileyo kwaye kufuneka ufumane umgangatho oqhelekileyo ukuze wenze izilungiso okanye izivumelwano kunye nomnye umntu.
Thatha Isaziso Xa Uziva Usongelwe Yilokho Omnye Okuthethayo Kuwe
Melana nesilingo sokuzikhusela okanye "ukuvala" umnxibelelwano womnye umntu. Kuya kuthatha lolu hlobo loqeqesho ukuze lube ngumntu ovulekile, othembekileyo.
Ukuzibandakanya Ukwenza Izicelo zabanye Xa Unomsindo
Ngokuqhelekileyo kunokuba luncedo ngakumbi ukwenza isicelo kunokuba ubelane ngomsindo wakho. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntanki uqhuba ngokuphambuka ngokushiya izitya ezingcolileyo kwindawo yokucwina, kungcono ukwenza isicelo kubo kunokuvumela ukuba umsindo wakho uphuze ngezinye iindlela ezifana nokuba kude.
Zama Ukuphinda Uphinda Amagama Achanekileyo Athetha Ngomntu Xa Uhlala Kwintlungu Yengqondo okanye Xa Ungavumelani Nabo Ngokupheleleyo
Le ndlela yokwenza izibuko iyakwazi ukugcina isithethi kunye nomphulaphuli 'egxininise' kwingxoxo enzima , ngakumbi xa isimo sengqondo somntu owenza isibuko ukufumana ukuqonda kweengcamango ezahlukeneyo.
Thatha uxanduva kwiimvakalelo zakho zokuphepha ukugxeka abanye
Isaziso xa 'ukugxeka' kuqalisa ukuvuza kwiintetho zakho. "Ndiyathukuthela xa unemizuzu engamashumi amabini kwaye ungabibize" lungcono kunokuba, "Undibangela ukuba ndibe ngudangele ngokukhawuleza."
Funda ukuLawula ezimbini kwiNkqubela ohlala kuyo njengokuba Ungumlamli okanye uMcebisi
Ukuba unokuphulaphula uphendule ngale ndlela uza kuzisa uxolo kunye nesisombululo ekuxabaneni ngokukhawuleza. Umzekelo, ngokuphendula kwisicelo sokuphakanyiswa komqeshwa, unokuthi, "Ngona-nye ndaqonda ukuba unyanzelekile ukuphakanyiswa, kwaye ngakwelinye icala ndimela i-nkampani, ekungekho imali ekhoyo kakhulu ngeli xesha. indlela endingayisebenzela ngayo iphakheji yakho yembuyekezo engabandakanyi imali? " Lapha, umbono womlamli unokubheka ukuxhatshazwa kokudala okuqwalasela imida kunye neemfuno zamabini omabini.
Thatha isimo sengqondo sokudlala ekuthuthukiseni iSakhono soMoya woKhuseleko kwiimeko eziPhakamileyo zokuBambisana
Unokujonga ukugcina ukuzithiba ngexesha elide, incoko enomsindo njengomdlalo wezemidlalo. Unokujonga kwakhona ukuphuhlisa lo buchule njengento efana nokusebenza kwindawo yokuzivocavoca enezisindo - ngakumbi ukuba usebenzisa isisindo sakho sokuzithiba sikhulu kwaye siya kuba lula ukuhlala uxolo xa uxinzelelo lukhulu.
Lindela iintsuku ezimbalwa zokuzihlaziya phantsi kwemizwelo Xa imeko ibangela ukuba uzive useNtsundu ngeemvakalelo ezinzulu, ezifana neRage
Njengoko ixesha lidlulayo, uya kuba neenjongo ngakumbi malunga nemiba kwaye uhlele inyaniso malunga neemeko ngokucacileyo.
Yenza isigqibo sokuba uthethe nge-Decorum Naluphi na onomsindo okanye odibeneyo
Ukuba uzinika imvume yokuvuthela, abantu abayikuziva bekhuselekile phakathi kwakho. Baya kuziva ukuba awunakulinganiswa kwaye uza kuthwala 'iikhoksi' xa besondele kuwe. Uloyiko kunye neendonga zabanye aziyi kuxhasa iinjongo zakho zokuphumelela ubudlelwane okanye emsebenzini.