Ukuba uye wakhathalela umlingane ogulayo okanye umzali osekhulile, unokuba uvakalelwa yimpembelelo yokunyamekela. Ukuba uziva udidekile okanye ukhululekile okanye ufumana iimpawu zokunyamezela, awukho wedwa. Ukubonelela olu hlobo lononophelo kunokubeka uxinzelelo olukhulu kumntu, kwaye abantu abanonophelo badla ngokumangaliswa ngumlinganiselo woxinzelelo abazivelayo.
Nazi ezinye zeengcinezelo ezijongene nabanonophelo abaninzi.
Ukoyika okanye Ukungabi Nokuqinisekiswa
Ukuba usesikweni sokunyamekela umntu onomdla okanye esinye isifo esibi, mhlawumbi ujongana neengxaki kwixesha elizayo lomthandayo. Ukuba unakekela umntwana onemfuno ezizodwa, kunokungaqiniseki malunga nendlela yokuqhubeka. Ukuba kwindawo yokunyamekela ngokuqhelekileyo kuthwala uxanduva olunzima kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iimeko eziyikrakra.
Shift kwi iNkqubo
Ukuba ukhathalela umzali osekhulile, kunokuba nzima ukubona umntu oqhelekileyo enomdla wokunyamekela ukuba unesidingo ngoncedo, ngokuqhelekileyo kwimisebenzi eyisiseko efana nokugqoka okanye ukuqhuba. Xa unyamekela umlingane ogulayo, iindima zihlala zichaphazelekayo ngokunjalo. Kungenokuba nzima ukumbona wakho othandekayo kwindawo enobungozi, kwaye kunzima ukuba abo bafuna ukunyamekela bazive bengenakunceda. Oku kungathatha inkokhelo kubo bonke abachaphazelekayo.
Uxinzelelo lwezeMali
Njengoko ugqirha lwezonyango kunye nezinye iirhafu zonyango, kwaye kunye namandla angaphantsi komsebenzi, abanonophelo baninzi bafumana bejongene neengcinezelo zezemali ngokunjalo.
Isolation
Xa sisebenzisana neemfuno zomntu ofuna ukunakekelwa rhoqo, umnakekeli unokuziva ekhethiweyo nakwezinye ihlabathi.
Ingaba unesimo apho kungakhuselekanga ukushiya wakho umthandayo wedwa, okanye nokuba bahlala bewodwa xa ushiya, unokufumana ubophelelwe ngakumbi kwindlu kunaphambili, oko kungenza kube nzima kuwe ukuba usebenzise umzimba, udibanise nabanye, wenze izinto ezinokukunceda uxinzeleleke.
Ixesha elincinane
Ngoxa abantu abanonophelo banokuziva bexhomekeke kwabanye, kuqhelekile ukuba nexesha elincinane. Isidingo sokuhlala sisodwa kunene kubantu abaninzi, kwaye ukuxinezeleka kokufumana ixesha elincinane kwedwa kunokuziva ukudideka umntu oziva ekhulile, kodwa iimvakalelo zombini zinokubambisana nabanonophelo, bangela ukuba uxinzelelo lwabo luphindwe.
Iimfuno zoNonophelo loNyaka
Abaninzi abanonophelo bafumana ukunikela ngononophelo lwama-clock-clock, okanye ukuchitha yonke imirhumo yamahhala abaya kwiimfuno zabo. Abanye bafumanisa ukuba uxanduva lwabo aluhlala luhlala lukhona, kodwa alukwazi ukuba luya kufuneka ngomzuzwana othile okanye olulandelayo, ngoko banomuzwa wokuthi kufuneka bahlale bekhona. Ukuvakalelwa kukuba "usoloko usebenza emsebenzini" kunokuthatha umthwalo onzima kumntu onomnakekeli.
Ukuthotywa
Ngamanye amaxesha uxanduva kunye neemvakalelo zokuzihlukanisa zingabangalisa, kwaye abanonophelo banokutshiswa.
Ngamanye amaxesha iimvakalelo zetyala zihamba kunye neemvakalelo, ngokungathi zibonakalisa ukungathembeki. Kusenokuba netyala xa umgcini-nkathalo evakalelwa kukuba abathandeki babo abathandayo njengokuba banakho, nangona kungekho nto enye into enokuyenza. Imiva yokukhungatheka iyaqondakala, kodwa isohlwayo isaqhubeka.
Ezi zimbalwa nje zoxinzelelo abazinyamekayo abavakalelwa ngazo, kwaye abantu abaninzi banokuvakalelwa kukuba amanqanaba abo axinzelelekileyo kwaye akufuneki asebenze izinto kunye nokuba kufanelekile. Ubhekane noxinzelelo olubalulekileyo, kwaye uxinzelelo luyimpendulo yendalo.
Ngokukodwa xa uye waba nendima yokukhathalela ixesha elide okanye ujongene noxanduva oluninzi njengomgcini-nkathalo, kwaye kubalulekile ukufumana ukuphuma koxinzelelo lwakho.
Nangona kunokuba kunzima ukufumana ixesha, amandla kunye nezibonelelo zokuzinyamekela , kubalulekile ukuba uzinakekele phambili. Kuya kufuneka ufunde ngokuxhaswa koxinzelelo kunye nabaxhasi kunye neengcebiso malunga nendlela yokulawula uxinzelelo ukuze ugweme ukukhathazeka .