Ubungozi bokusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo
Xa abantu basebenzisa igama elithi "iphathi kunye nokudlala" (okanye i- PnP efutshane), "iqela" ngokuqhelekileyo lithetha ukuthatha iziyobisi nabanye abantu, okanye mhlawumbi omnye umntu, kwaye "ukudlala" kuthetha ukulala ngesondo. Iqela kunye nokudlala kudla ngokuqhelekileyo kuluntu lwengqungquthela njengendlela yokubonisa amadoda amabini okanye angama-gay abuthana kunye nokusebenzisa iziyobisi zokuzonwabisa ukuphucula isondo. Isiza esichazwa ngokubhekiselele kwi-crystal meth, nangona iqela leqela kunye nokudlala kunokuthetha ukusetyenziswa kokuzonwabisa kwanaluphi na uhlobo lwesilonda ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo phakathi kwabantu abanobuphi na isondo, xa isilwanyana sisetyenziselwa ukuphucula amava ngesondo ngendlela ethile.
Iqela kunye nokudlala kunokubandakanya ukulala ngesini, kodwa kungasetyenziselwa ukubhekisela kwiintetho zesini kunye nezobisi ezibandakanya iziyobisi.
Kutheni abanye abantu beGay badlala kunye bedlala?
Kukho ubuninzi beengcamango, ubungqina be-anecdotal kunye nophando olujongene nento eyenziwa yimicimbi yeqela kunye neyokudlala kwimidlalo yesini. Kule ngxelo, ugxininiso lubekwe ekuvunyelweni kwezesondo ezingachazwanga, ukukhululeka kwiintlobo zobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo, phakathi kwamadoda angama-gay.
Esinye sezizathu eziphambili eziphakanyisiweyo kukuba abantu abancinci be-gay kaninzi abakwazi ukuhlangabezana namaqabane asemandleni kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo, ngoko bathambe ukusebenzisa i-gay bars, iiklabhu, izingosi zokuthandana nabasetyhini kunye namagumbi okuxoxa ukuze bahlangabezane nabalingani bezesondo. Ukusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa kuye kwande kakhulu kulezi zicwangciso, kwaye ngoko izidakamizwa kunye nokulala ngesondo ngokungaqhelekanga g, u-isandla ngesandla.
Ezinye zezinye izizathu ezinikwe ukuba kutheni i-sex guy party kunye nokudlala kukukwenza isondo sobulili kunzima ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga (ngokomzekelo, ukunika ithuba elikhulu lokuphumla, eluncedo ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo), nokwandisa isondo kunye ne-stamina - i-erectile ye-dysfunction drug I-Viagra isetyenziswa rhoqo kule njongo.
Kuye kwaqulunqwa ukuba iziyobisi zingakwandisa isibindi esidingekayo ukuze singabikho.
Ukusebenzisa iziyobisi ukwenzela ukuba ulwabelana ngesondo kwaye ungabhekana neentlungu zokudana nokudakumba uye wadibanisa nomsebenzi wesondo - ukutshintshana ngesondo ngemali, iziyobisi okanye ezinye izinto - kubafana nabasetyhini.
Abasebenzi bezesondo zorhwebo kunye nabasetyhini abafuna i-party-and-play-sex-play partners are engozini yokwanda kwe-HIV. Ukwanda kwenani le-HIV phakathi kwamadoda angama-gay ukususela kwimiba yesifo se-minyaka yeshumi esedlulileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, izicwangciso zokukhusela zijolise kumadoda angama-gay ngaphezulu kakhulu kunabasebenzi bezesondo, abavame ukuxhatshazwa luluntu, nangona ukuba abasebenzi abaninzi bezesondo baxhoba ngokuxhaphazwa ngokwesondo . Kubo, umsebenzi wesondo kuyindlela yokuphila kunokukhetha okulungileyo.
Ngaba i-PnP iRite of Passage kwi-Community Gay?
Nangona amanye amadoda angama-gay athembisa ukuba ukubandakanyeka kweqela kunye nokudlala kubonisa uhlobo lokuqalwa kwimeko yesini, ngokwenene, amadoda amaninzi angama-gay ayakhethi ukusebenzisa iziyobisi-okanye ukuba angabonakali ngesondo okanye angakhuselekanga. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwakhona ngumsebenzi ongeyonto yonke phakathi kwabantu abesilisa abangama-gay, nokuba ngaba kusetyenziswe ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi okanye cha.
Kuyadabukisa ukuba abanye abaselula abathathaka, abanokuqinisekiswa kwindlela abahlala ngayo kwi-community gay, bathenge kule ngqungquthela baze bathathe iziyobisi ukwenzela ukuba benze kwaye bazive beyingxenye yeso siganeko. Kwakhona kunondla ubungqina bobuxoki bendoda engama-gay njengento engathandabuzekiyo, engenakukhathazeka kwaye engathandekiyo ekusebenzisaneni.
Ukuba uxinzelelwe ngumntu onokubandakanyeka kwisini-sexually-fueled, ngokukhethekileyo ngesondo, ungacinga ukuba, kunokuba ube ngumntu oqhelekileyo wamadoda angama-gay, oku kungaba ngumcimbi waloo mntu kwaye kwaye ungabonisa ezinye iingxaki, ezifana nokuxhatshazwa ngokwesini .
Ngokuqinisekileyo akufanele wenze nantoni na ebandakanya isondo okanye iziyobisi ukuze uzame ukwamukelwa omnye umntu okanye iqela, njengoko izingozi ziphezulu kakhulu. Njalo usebenzise isondo ngokukhuselekileyo ngokusebenzisa ikhondom xa ulala ngesondo.
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