Indlela efanelekileyo yokunceda intsapho yonke
Ekujonganeni nentombazana engxakini, abazali abanokungavumelani nento ebangela iingxaki okanye indlela yokuphendula ngayo. Abantakwabo basoloko bebacaphukisa ukugxininiswa ngakumbi kwintsholongwane enemiba. Ulwaphulo lweentsapho lubonakaliswe ukuba luyindlela efanelekileyo yokunceda umntwana okhuselekileyo kunye nosapho lwawo.
Kutheni Ukhetha Unyango Lwentsapho?
Iintsapho zethu kunye neentlobo zabo zineempembelelo ezinzulu kwaye zihlala zihlala kuthi.
Bafana nendlela yabo yentlalo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, kunye neontanga, impembelelo ebalulekileyo. Ukubandakanya lonke intsapho kwonyango elichaphazelekayo lunokukunceda ukujongana nemiba phakathi kwamalungu entsapho, bonise intsapho indlela yokubambisana nokuxhasa umntwana, uluncede ilungu ngalinye lentsapho lifunde ukutshintshana ngendlela engafanelekanga kunye nokunceda wonke umntu afunde izakhono zokunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo . Uphando luqhubeka lubonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba unyango lwentsapho luyonyango olufanelekileyo kwaye lunamandla okukhawuleza ukuchonga iinkalo zengxaki.
Ukufumana iNtsapho Yengcali
- Fumana abathinteli bezinto ezichanekileyo kwimithombo yolwazi, kubandakanywa nabahlobo abaye bathatha inxaxheba kwonyango lwentsapho, abaqeqeshi bempilo, iinkampani zomshuwalense, abefundisi, iinkqubo zenkxaso zengqesho kunye / okanye imibutho yobungcali.
- Qinisekisa ukuba ugqirha unemfundo ekhethekileyo kwonyango lwentsapho, kwaye ngokukodwa ekuncediseni intsha, njengomsebenzi wezentlalo zelayisenisi okanye umtshato kunye nosapho lweengcali.
- Ukuze unyango lwentsapho lube luncedo, umphathiswa kufuneka abe yinto efanelekileyo nentsapho, umntu obonakala ekwazi, oncedo kwaye enakho ukubandakanya umntwana wakho ukuba akhulume ngokuvulekileyo. Ukuba oku akunjalo, cela umgqirha ukuba uhanjiswe kwabanye abagqirha abangaba ngcono. A
Ukufumana amalungu omndeni ukuba avumelane ukuBamba iqhaza
Cacisa kuwo onke amalungu omndeni ukuba inxaxheba yabo iyadingeka ukuze kuncedwe kunye nokuxhasa umntwana wakho.
Ukubonelela ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba unyango luya kwenzeka kwindawo ekhuselekileyo. Buza ilungu ngalinye lentsapho ukuba lizinikele ekuthatheni inxaxheba kwiseshoni yokuqala , emva koko umntu ngamnye unokugqiba isigqibo sokuba uyaqhubeka. Umphathiswa omhle uya kusebenza kunye nawo onke amalungu entsapho kwiseshoni yokuqala ukuze athathe inxaxheba kunye nokuqhubeka nokuthatha inxaxheba.
Ukulungiselela iSeshoni yokuQala
Yilungele ukuphendula umbuzo oyintloko oya kubuzwa ngumgqirha, "Ufuna ukutshintsha ntoni?" Thetha namanye amalungu omndeni, ingakumbi wakho umntwana, malunga nempendulo yalo mbuzo.
Kananjalo ungaphinda ufune ukubhala amanqaku malunga nokuziphatha kwakho kokukhathazeka kwentsha kunye neyiphi na into ebangela ukuba uyazi. Yenza uluhlu lwemibuzo kumgulana onjenge:
- Iyintoni indlela osebenza ngayo kunye neentsapho kwaye kutheni isebenza?
- Kuya kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukuqala ukubona utshintsho?
- Unjani uhlobo lokuphumelela?
- Yintoni enokuyenza ngamnye wethu ukuze ancede ukwenza eli lihle ngamava?
Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuba unyango lusebenza ngempumelelo xa ugqirha usebenzisa iindidi zezindlela ezivela kwizikolo ezahlukahlukeneyo zengqondo zengqondo ngokusekelwe kwiimfuno zentsapho ngokwazo kunokugxila kwindlela enye.
Liza kuthatha ixesha elingakanani unyango?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, unyango lweentsapho luhlala ezinyangeni ezimbini ukuya ezintandathu, kodwa kuxhomekeke kwiimfuno zentsapho nganye.
Iimeko ezithintekayo zingathatha ixesha elide.
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