Iintloni kunye nokwazisa ngokuqhelekileyo ziphosakeleyo njengento efanayo. Iintlanzi zibandakanya ukwesaba ukuvavanya kakubi (kwaye luhlobo olunzima lokuxhalaba kwezenhlalakahle ), ngoxa ukungeniswa kweentetho kubhekisela ekuthambekeni kokuba ngaphezu kokuvuselela kunye nokufuna ukuba yedwa ukufumana amandla.
Ulwahluko lwentloni luphumayo, ngelixa ulwahlulo lwe-introversion luyaxubusha .
Ezi ngcamango zifana kodwa zihluke. Umntu ophumayo akayikwesaba abanye kwaye unethambeko lokusondela-ingaba kwimeko, xa udibana nomntu omtsha, okanye xa wenza izicwangciso nabahlobo. I-extrovert ibonakala ifana, ngokuqhelekileyo yenza abahlobo lula. Nangona kunjalo, inkalo ebalulekileyo ye-extrovert iyimfuneko yokuvuselela kunye nexesha elichithwe nabanye.
Ucinga ukuba ulungelelani na kwi-introversion / extrosion kunye nobukhulu beentloni / eziphumayo? Kucacile, asikwazi ukuhlula abantu, kodwa sinokucinga ngabantu abaninzi ngokuxhomekeka kwelinye lala maqela amane alandelayo:
- Extrovert ephumayo
- Shy Extrovert
- Introvert ephumayo
- Shy Introvert
Ukuncedisa ukuba yiliphi iqela elijongene kakhulu, ndidale itafile echaza indlela umntu ophuma kwicandelo ngalinye angayiphendula ngayo ezinye iimeko zentlalo / zentsebenziswano.
Jonga ngezantsi uze ubone ukuba nayiphina iipateni zizwakala kakuhle kuwe.
I-Outrovert ephumayo | Shy-Extrovert | Ephumayo-Ngenisa | Shy-Introvert | |
Kwiqela | Oku kumnandi kakhulu! Ndivakalelwa kukuba ndinamandla. Andikwazi ukulinda ukuthetha nomntu wonke. | Ndiyakuthanda ukujikeleza bonke aba bantu, kodwa ndiyesaba kakhulu ukuthetha nabo. | Ndiyakuthanda ukuthetha nokukwazi abantu ngabanye ngabanye. Isihlwele sonke isixeko sinzima kakhulu. | Ndiyathanda ukuba ndihambe nje ekhaya. Kuyaxhalaba malunga nabo bonke aba bantu, kwaye ndiyesaba kakhulu ukuthetha nabani na. |
Kwilayibrari | Ndilele. Ngubani onokufumana ukuba ndixoxe naye? Mhlawumbi ndimele ndithumele umntu. Ndiyazi ukuba uYenny / Tom wenza ntoni namhlanje ebusuku. | Kuyinto ebuntshwenyeka kakhulu elayibrari, kodwa ubuncinci ndingazifihla ekhoneni kwaye ndingenzi isilumko. | Ndiyathanda ukuhlala elayibrari. Ndifuna ukufunda ngezihloko ezininzi. Mhlawumbi ndimele ndixoxe kunye nelayibrari, ndibethe ukuba uyinzuzo yolwazi. | Ndiyathanda ukuhlala elayibrari. Ndiyakufihla impumlo yam encwadini kwaye ndifunde yonke imini. Ndiyesaba kakhulu ukucela umthala-mbuzo umbuzo nangona kunjalo. |
Xa ifowuni ikhonkco | Hayi! Ndiyazi ukuba ngubani lowo. (Khetha emva kwendandatho yokuqala). | Hmmm. Ndiyabuza ukuba ngubani onokuyenza? Ndifuna ngokwenene ukufumana, kodwa ndoyika ukuphendula ifowuni. (Ikhetha phezulu emva kwexesha). | O, ndiyathemba ukuba nguJane. Andikwazi ukulinda ukuze ndifumene indlela uhambo lwakhe lwalukho ngayo. (Phakamisa emva kwamacandzana ambalwa, uvumele uJane enze ininzi yokuthetha). | Oh hayi. Andikwazi ukuwuthabatha ifowuni. Kuthekani ukuba ndenza isidenge. Andifuni ukuthetha nabani na. (Vumela ukuba uye kwivoicemail). |
Ukudibana nomntu okokuqala | (Uhamba ngaphaya kwaye uzethule) "Sawu, igama lam nguSara, ndakhula kunye noKate. Ngubani igama lakho? | (Ulindele ukwesaba ukuba uqaliswe) "Ndiyakuvuyela ukudibana nawe." | (Ulinde umzuzwana ozolileyo kwaye uzenzele yena) "Unayo ikhaya elihle. Ndabona ukuba unayo iqoqo leencwadi, ngaba ungumfundi onomdla? Igama lam nguSara endleleni. " | (Ifihla, enethemba lokuphepha izethulo) "Ndikulungele ukukuhlangabeza." |
Kwiintlanganiso emsebenzini | Ndiyathanda iintlanganiso, kukukhulu ukukwazi ukuthetha ngeengcamango kwiqela. Ndiyakuthanda ukunika kwaye uthathe, kwaye uhlala usenza isabelo esilungileyo sokuthetha. | Ndiyakuthanda ukuhlangana kunye nabantu bonke, kodwa ndinomdla kakhulu ukuxelela abanye ngezimvo zam. | Iintlanganiso zindikhupha. Ndiyathanda ukucinga iingcamango phambi kokuba ndihlanganyele iingcamango zam, kwaye kunzima ukwenza kwintlanganiso. Ndihlala ndithatha amanqaku, kwaye emva koko ndilandelelana nabantu emva kokuba ndibe nethuba lokuhlenga yonke into. | Ndikwesaba iintlanganiso. Akukuphela nje ukuphulaphula wonke umntu ngokubhekiselele kwimibono, kodwa ndinentlungu ehleli apho ukuba andinakuze ndilandele oko kuthethwa. Ndingathanda ukuba ndifihle edeskini. |