Ngaba unelungelo lokuzimela ngasese emtshatweni?
Ukunyaniseka kunye neqabane lakho akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uhlanganyele kunye nombono, uphupha, ukwesaba, okanye umfesane ngalo mntu. Ekubusweni, ukunyaniseka kungaba yinkota ejikeleze kabini emtshatweni wakho. Ukwazi oko kukubelana kunye noko kungabikho ukwabelana kubaluleke kakhulu ikhono lokunxibelelana kubalingani ukuba bafunde kwaye basebenzise kwimitshato yabo. Kusenokuba yinto enokukunceda okanye yokuphazamisa uxolo nokuvisisana nomlingane wakho.
Ukugcina iMfihlelo kunye neLungelo lokuPhatha
Unelungelo lokuzimela ngasese nakuphi na ulwalamano, kuquka nomtshato, intsapho okanye iqela. Nakuphi na ubudlelwane, unelungelo lokugcina inxalenye yobomi bakho imfihlo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yinto encinci okanye ibaluleke kangakanani, ngenxa yeso sizathu sokuba ufuna ukwenza njalo. Kananjalo unelungelo lokuchitha ixesha elilodwa kunye kunye nawe kuphela.
Unempilweni kwaye uyilumko ukuhlonipha ingqondo yomzimba kunye neyomzimba okufunekayo kuwe kunye neqabane lakho. Ngaphandle koko, ngokugqithiseleyo, ugqiba ukunciphisa ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye nomnye, kungayikuphucula. Awukwazi ukuthandana ngokuqinisekileyo neqabane lakho ngaphandle kokuthintana neendawo ezingaphakathi nawe.
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Kukho izizathu ezifanelekileyo zokugcina imfihlelo kwiqabane lakho. Akufanele ufune ukukhusela ukuba ungabonakali ixesha elidlulileyo okanye elimazayo. Kungenzeka ukuba imfihlelo ibandakanya omnye umntu ocele ukuba ibali lingaxelelwa.
Kukho ezininzi izibini ezitshatileyo ixesha elide ezineemfihlelo ezizodwa ezingazange zabelane nabo. Ingqiqo yendawo kunye nengqiqo yecandelo labucala lobodwa libaluleka kubantu abaninzi.
Ukwazi ixesha lokwabelana ngemfihlelo
Ukuba unemfihlo ocinga ukuba kufuneka uhlanganyele nayo, kodwa ungaqinisekanga ngokwenza njalo, jonga kwiimpendulo zakho zomzimba xa ufihla imfihlo.
Ukuba uxinzelelo lwegazi lwakho luyanda, okanye ufumanisa ukukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza, okanye ukuphefumla kwakho kunzima, okanye ukuphosa ngaphezulu, ke oku kuya kuba yizinto ezifunekayo ukuba ubelane ngalo mfihlelo.
Ukuba ugcina imfihlelo ngenxa yokuba awufuni ukujongana noxanduva lomtshato wakho, oku kunokudala iingxaki. Iimbali zokungafihli okanye iinkcukacha lakho iqabane kufuneka likwazi ukuzenza izigqibo.
Izimfihlakalo ezinokubangela umtshato wakho zizinto eziphathelele:
- iingxaki zomsebenzi
- nga hlawuli iibhili
- ukuboleka imali
- ukutyhila isigulo
- ukubonwa yintsapho kunye nabahlobo ngasese
- ukuxoka malunga nendlela ochitha ngayo imali
- ukugcina umlutha okanye ukusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi
- iingxaki zomthetho
- ukuba nomcimbi
Ixesha lokuhlala lihlaziye malunga neNfihlakalo
Ukuba uya kukwabelana ngemfihlo okanye ingxaki enzima kunye neqabane lakho, qaphela ukuba amaxesha alandelayo akusixesha elifanelekileyo lokutyhila oku:
- Ngexesha lokulala.
- Ukuba omnye unxila.
- Xa enoba yeyiphi na imeko exinzelelekileyo.
- Ngexesha lexesha lokugcoba.
- Xa wena okanye iqabane lakho nithukuthele.
- Xa unesikhathele okanye ugula.
- Xa iqabane lakho sele lijongene neendaba ezimbi.
Ufuna Uncedo
Ukunyaniseka nokuthembela kubalulekile ekuphumeleleni komtshato. Umgca omncinci phakathi kwezinto ezifihliweyo ezamkelekileyo kwaye zeziphi na eziya kumnceda umntu aze aphumele umtshato.
Ukuba uqala ukuziva umgama emtshatweni wakho kwaye ucinge ukuba kungaba yimpembelelo yemfihlelo, ngoko kufike ixesha lokubonisana nomcebisi weengcali.
Umlingane ofumanisa ukuba uthe waxoxwa ngokuchanekileyo, unikwe isigxina-inyaniso okanye akaxelelwa ngolwazi olubalulekileyo unokuziva unengqondo enkulu yokungcatsha. Oku kuncatshiswa kunokuba nzima ukubuyela kuyo kwaye iqabane lakho lingaze live liphinde lithembeke ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba le meko isebenza kuwe, ngokukhawuleza ujongane nayo ibe ngcono!
* I-Article ihlaziywe nguMarni Feuerman