Iingxoxo zesini ziye zahamba ngendlela ende kule minyaka embalwa edlulileyo. Njengokuba kukho ukuqonda okukhulayo malunga nokwahlukana kwezesondo kunye nolwahlulo lobuhlanga, kwaye kwaba nokuqonda kokwandisa ukuba iindidi zesiganeko zesini "zesilisa" kunye "neentombi" zingabambelela ngokugqithiseleyo. Abantu abayena nje i-transgender okanye i-cisgender.
Le mihla, abantu abaninzi banokuzichazela ngokwabo njengabesini, isinifluid, nonary binary, okanye i-agender. La magama athetha izinto ezahlukileyo, kodwa zonke zichaza abantu abanezifo zobunini into engaphandle kwindoda okanye ibhinqa.
Ukuqonda iGender Binary
Ngokomlando, abaninzi abantu baye bachonga ubulili babo njengendoda okanye ibhinqa. Ezi ziqhelo zihlala zihambelana nomntu osinikwe ngesini ngexesha lokuzalwa. Nangona kunjalo, bekukho abantu abaye bachonga njengesini ngesini esingahambelani nezokwabelana ngesondo ngexesha lokuzalwa. Abanye balabo bantu bayaphula umthetho. Abanye banesibalo sobunzima bobunzima ukuba bahlule.
Ubunini bhinqa bubhekisela kwingcamango yokuba ubulili yiyiphi / okanye isiluleko. Kwihlabathi elinobunini bobulili, abantu banesilisa okanye ibhinqa-ukhetho olubini. Nangona kunjalo, abanye abantu bachonga njengokuba ayiyindoda okanye isetyhini, inhlanganisela yamadoda kunye nabesifazane, okanye isini esahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo.
Ibinzana elithi "off off binary" lisetyenziswe ngabantu abangevanga ngathi ibhinari yindoda neyowesifazane ifanelekile ukuba yesazisi.
Kwiminyaka emininzi, abantu be-transgender bafunwa ngabaqeqeshi bezonyango ukuba baqaphele njengesondo "esahlukileyo" kunye nesicwangciso sokutshintshela ukuba babe ilungu lesini esithandana nabo ngokobulili ukuze bakwazi ukuqala ukuguqulwa kwezonyango okanye ukuguqulwa.
Lezo mfuneko ziye zakhululeka kakhulu emva kwexesha, ngokubonga ngenxa yokusebenza komphakathi we-transgender. Olu tshintsho lubonakalisa, ngokukodwa, ukwamkelwa okwenyuka kwamadoda angqingili, ubunqweno, kunye nobuxhakaxhomekeke njengento yokuziphatha ngokwesondo.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba yi-Genderqueer okanye engekho iBhinary?
Abanye abantu bazibhekisela njengobunini bobulili obungenanto, ubungqina obwaziwa nangokuthi "Enby" (Ukuvakaliswa njengaleta N neB). Aba bantu banokuchonga njengento engekho kumbhinqa okanye kwindawo ethile phakathi kwindoda neyesetyhini. Abantu abangekho bhinari baneendawo ezahlukeneyo zokubonakala. Abanye bayamkela izinto zombini kunye nezibhinqa kunye nezixhobo zokusebenza. Abanye bazama ukukhangela. (Inqaku, igama ne-androgyny idibaniso yeengcambu zesiGrike zibhekisela kwindoda kunye neyesetyhini). Abanye bangabonisa ngendlela ebenzileyo ngaphandle koko bachonge ukuba bangabonari. Kubalulekile ukukhumbuza ukuba ukubonisa ngesini okanye ukubonakalisa ngokwesini yinto abantu abakhethayo ukubonisa ihlabathi, kodwa ubuni boba ngubani.
I-Genderqueer kunye neyodwa engekho ibhinari iindidi ezigqithisiweyo. Abanye abantu basebenzise imigaqo yokuthetha into efanayo. Kwabanye, ubunikazi bobulili bufana nezokwebelana ngesondo.
I-Queer lixesha elivulekileyo elibandakanya zonke iinkalo zesini kunye nezinye izilwanyana eziqhelekileyo ngaphandle kwesondo Ngokufanayo, umntu ophethe ngokwesini umntu ongabonakali njengento engekho ibhinari. Baya kuthi baqaphele njengabesilisa okanye abesifazana, bobabini nabesifazana, okanye ukuhlanganiswa kwamadoda.
Umntu ochaza njenge-sexfluid unesini esingaqulwanga ngexesha. Ubume babo besini buyahlukahluka kunye nemeko okanye imeko okanye ngexesha. Umlinganiselo abavakalelwa ngawo okanye ukuveza ubulili bawo unokwahluka ngexesha. Abanye abantu bachonga kakhulu ngesini okanye ngabafazi.
Bayazi kakuhle ubulili babo kwaye abanakukhathazeka xa bekhohlakeleyo (kubonwa njengowesini ngesimo sokuthi bangabonakalisa njani). Abanye abantu abafumani ubulili ukuba babe ngabasebenzi.
Ukuba nguAgender
Xa umntu ephethe i-agender, kuthetha ukuba abanalo ubuni besini, okanye ukuba ubungqina besini abuyinto eyakhayo kubo. Kule meko, isiqalo sokuqala-sisetyenziswe ukubonisa ngaphandle . Abantu abane-agender banokuthi bachonge njengowesini okanye ongekho ibhinari. Kubalulekile ukukhankanya ukuba njengokuba umntu oqhelana nomntu ongeyena mfokazi, umntu we-agender akayifuni i-asexual. Abantu banoma yiliphi na isini banakho ukuqhelana ngesondo.
I-Neutrois kunye nokungathathi hlangothi kwezesini yimiqathango engasetyenziswa ngabantu abangabonakali njengelesini, okanye ngubani ochonga njengobunqunu obuthathi hlangothi.
I-Uncle They-A Pronoun Primer
Akunabo bonke abantu abanesini kunye nabangabonakaliyo abasebenzisa izivakalisi ezifanayo. Kukho iintlobo zezimelami ezazisetyenziswa kumaqela ahlukeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, esinye sezivakalisi eziqhelekileyo ezisetyenziswe ngabantu abangabonakali njengendoda okanye ibhinqa yiyodwa. "Baye" basetyenziswa endaweni "yena" okanye "yena." "Ezi" zisetyenziswe endaweni "yakhe" okanye "yakhe". Ekugqibeleni, "yabo" isetyenziswe endaweni yakhe.
Ukuba awukwazi ukuba yeyiphi isimemezelo esetyenziswa ngumntu, kulungile ukubuza. Enyanisweni, kuhloniphekile ukubuza kunokuba uqikelele. Konke okufuneka ukwenze kuthi, "yiziphi izibhengezo ozikhethayo?" Unokubeka umzekelo ocacileyo xa uzifaka ngokwazisa izivakalisi zakho. Ngokomzekelo, ungathi "Sawubona! NdingumElizabethe, kwaye ndiyisebenzisa izibhengezo zakhe."
Oko kwathiwa, ukuba uhlala kwiqela apho uza kucela malunga nesigidimi somntu omnye, kufuneka ucele malunga nezivakalisi. Akukufanelekanga ukuba umntu omnye abe nombuzo, kuba oko kunokuziva ngathi ujolise kubo. Kunoko, ungathi into enjengale, "Ngaba sonke singanika izivakalisi zethu?" Ndizisebenzisa / zabo / zabo. "
ILizwi
Amagama asetyenziswa ukubhekisela kwisini ahlala eshintsha. Ngako oko, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba inkcazo yomntu oyedwa inokuba yinto ehluke kakhulu komnye, nokuba asebenzisa amagama afanayo ukuchaza ubuni babo. Into ebalulekileyo kukuhlonipha abantu abachazwe ngesini. Oko kuthetha ukubonisa amagama abasebenzisa ukuzichaza ngokwawo, kunokuzikhethela zakho. Kwakhona kuthetha ukuhlonipha nokusebenzisa izivakalisi ezikhethiweyo. Emva koko, wonke umntu uyingcali ebomini bakhe kwaye uyabaxelela ukuba ngubani kunye nehlabathi. Abanye bangabantu ababukeleyo, kungekhona nje ukuba bafanele ukuchaza amava aloo mntu.
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