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Xa omnye okanye bobabili ningalalelane, unenkinga kumtshato wakho. Ukuba ukungaphumeleli kokuphulaphula kuyaqhubeka, umtshato wakho ungasengozini.
Ingxaki yokuphulaphula emtshatweni wakho inxulumene nemibandela enokuthi umlingane wakho unayo, indlela yakho yokuhanjiswa, okanye ukudibana kokubili.
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- Usenokuthatha ixesha elide ukuthetha oko ufuna ukuthetha. I-monologs eninzi emininzi iyamkhathaza. Yiya kwindawo.
- Unokwenza ingxoxo kunye nomlingane wakho. Nika iqabane lakho ithuba lokuthetha.
- Ukuba unembali yokuthetha izinto ezibuhlungu, ukuhlambalaza, ukusongela, ukungahloneli okanye ukungahloneli iimfundiso kunye neemvakalelo zakho, umlingane wakho uya kukukhusela kwaye akukhuseli ngokungakuphulaphuli. Musa ukuthetha ezi zinto!
- Ukuba kukho umzekelo wokutshatyalaliswa kwento oyithethayo kwiqabane lakho, lakho iqabane liyakuncoma. Yeka u ku lawula. Yithetha oko uthethayo.
- Ukuba isicatshulwa sakho sisishumayela, uqeqesho, okanye umbuzo, lakho iqabane lingathanda ukungava iintetho zakho okanye imibuzo. Yeka ukuba nguprofesa okanye ummeli kumtshato wakho.
- Unokusebenzisa amaninzi amaninzi kwiingxelo zakho. Amazwana abasebenzisa amagama anjenge "njalo", "akakho", kwaye "rhoqo" angenza iqabane lidibanise yonke ingxoxo. Ukuphelisa la magama kwisigama sakho.
- Ixesha lakho lingasuswa. Umyeni wakho mhlawumbi akayi kuphulaphula xa ediniwe, exakeke ngezinye iingcamango, ezibandakanyekayo kwiprojekthi, ebukele umabonwakude, okanye esebenza kwikhompyutha. Xelela iqabane lakho ufuna ukuthetha kwaye ubuze ukuba lixesha elihle. Ukuba lakho iqabane lithi ayikho, musa ukuxhamla.
- Naliphi na ingxoxo malunga nezihloko okanye imiba exoxwa ngayo ngexesha elidlulileyo ibangela ukuba iqabane lidibanise. Musa ukuzisa imiba endala okanye izihloko.
- Umlingane wakho usenokukhathala ngokuqhubekayo ncokola apho ukhononda khona, ucoce, okanye uthetha kakubi. Yiba nesimo esihle.
- Mhlawumbi awuphulaphuli lakho iqabane. Hlola indlela ophulaphula ngayo xa iqabane lakho lixoxa ngesihloko esibalulekileyo nawe.
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- Iqabane lakho lingenalo umdla kumxholo othetha ngawo. Buza ukuba le nto into efunwa ngumlingane wakho ufuna ukuthetha ngayo.
- Umlingane wakho unokwesaba ulwalamano.
- Iqabane lakho lingavumelani nento othethayo kwaye ayivulekanga ukuphulaphula icala lakho.
- Umlingane wakho unokuvaphula kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba umhla othile kwaye unolwazi olugqithiseleyo. Musa ukutyhalazela ngaphezulu.
- Ukuba unika icebiso lakho okanye ulwazi, lakho iqabane lingakholelwa ukuba sele liyazi impendulo okanye indlela yokwenza into ethile.
- Umlingane wakho unokuba nomkhwa wokugijima phambi koko utshoyo ngokucinga ngendlela ongasabela ngayo.
- Umlingane wakho unokugweba ukuba into oyithethayo ayibalulekile.
- Umlingane wakho unokukholelwa ukuba ukunyamekela into oyithethayo kuya kwenza ukuba imeko okanye imeko ihambe.
- Umlingane wakho akafuni ukuva oko ufanele ukuthetha.
- Umlingane wakho unokusebenzisa kuphela isigamu sengqondo ukuphulaphula. "Abaphandi baseUnited States bafumene ukuba amadoda aphulaphule isigxina sabo sengqondo, ngelixa abesetyhini basebenzisa amacala amabini ... yena [uDkt. Joseph T. Lurito] wacebisa ukuba abafazi babengafuni ukubaphulaphuli. beengqondo zabo ukuphulaphula iingxoxo, kodwa wathi kubonisa ukuba abafazi banokuphulaphula iingxoxo ezimbini ngelo xesha. " Umthombo: BBC.co.uk. "Kutheni abantu bengalaleli?"
- Umlingane wakho unokuziva esicatshulwa kwaye engakhululekile ukubonisa umbono wakhe ochaseneyo, ngoko ukulungiswa kwindlela elula. Vumela lakho iqabane lingavumelani nawe.
- Umlingane wakho unokufumana ixesha elifutshane. Ngokutsho kukaCarla Rieger, ingqalelo kwithuba lomntu omdala ngumzuzwana wesi-7 kuphela. Kufuneka umise ngoku kwaye emva koko uthetha. Vumela lakho iqabane ukuba libuze imibuzo ukucacisa oko utshoyo.
- Umlingane wakho unokufumana iziphazamiso ezininzi ngexesha lakho incoko. Ukuba ukuqwalaselwa ngokupheleleyo kwento othethayo kubalulekile kuwe, cima ifowuni zefoni, njl.
- Umlingane wakho angafuni ukuphulaphula ukuphepha ingxabano.
- Umlingane wakho unokuva oko wakutshoyo, kodwa ukholelwa ngokungafaniyo okanye akafuni ukwenza oko wakucelayo, kwaye kulula ukubonwa ngokungayi kuphulaphula kunokuthi cha.