Kwizengqondo zentlalo , inkqubo yovavanyo lokubonakalisa i-appraisal nkqubo ithathwa njengenye yeempembelelo ekuphuhlisweni kweengcamango zobuqu . Ithenda ibhekisele kwinkqubo apho sicinga ukuba abanye abantu bayibona njani. Kwiimeko ezininzi, indlela esiyakholelwa ngayo ukuba abanye bayasiqonda yindlela esiziqonda ngayo.
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Sonke senza izigwebo malunga nabantu, izinto kunye neziganeko kwihlabathi elikujikelezayo.
Siyazi kwakhona ukuba abanye abantu benza izigwebo ngathi . Cinga ngethuba lokugqibela oya kwiqela. Mhlawumbi uchithe ixesha elithile ukulungela, ukhetha iingubo ozigqoka kunye nezinye iinkalo zokubonakala kwakho. Xa usenkundleni, ngokukhawuleza uqaphele ukuba abanye abantu bathatha ubukho bakho kwaye benza izigwebo malunga nendlela obukeka ngayo, kodwa indlela ozenza ngayo, ubuntu bakho kunye nezinto ozikhethayo.
Kwakuyi-sociologist uCharles H. Cooley owathi wachaza indlela inkqubo yokuhlola yokubonakalisa isebenza ngayo ingcamango yakhe yokuzijonga ngeglasi. UColey waphakamisa ukuba umntu ozibonele ngokubaluleka ngokusekelwe ekuqondeni kwakhe indlela aqondwa ngayo ngabanye. Ngokwale ngcamango, ukusebenzisana kwezentlalo kubambe iqhaza eliphambili ekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo. Isazi sengqondo sengqondo uHarry Stack Sullivan wayengowokuqala ukusebenzisa ixesha elibonisa ukuhlolwa kwincwadi yakhe ye-1953 ethi The Interpersonal Theory of Psychiatry .
Indlela Le Nqubo Yokuziphatha Iyakuthinta Ngayo
Kukho iinkalo ezahlukeneyo ezinokuchaphazela indlela oku kubonakaliswa ngayo ukuhlolwa kwee-appraisal kunokuchaphazela ukuhlolwa koomntu. Ngokomzekelo, abantu bathambekele ekubeni banokuchaphazeleka ngakumbi kwizigwebo ezinikezwa ngumntu obonakala enokwethenjelwa kakhulu. Khawucinge ukuba ungumculi onqwenelayo kwaye unayo igalari yokuqala yokubonisa kwiyunivesithi yendawo.
Omnye wabacebisi bakho abaxabisekileyo bajonga umsebenzi wakho kwaye ukhulula ukuhlaziywa okukhazimulayo. Ekubeni ubona lo mntu njengomthombo othembekileyo, incomo iya kuthwala ubunzima obukhulu kunokuba ikhutshwe ngumntu ongenakwenzeka ngaphandle kwesitalato.
Ukufumana uvavanyo olufanayo oluvela kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo lunokudlala indima kwindlela umntu ochaphazelekayo ngayo inxaxheba ngayo. Ukuba ufumana iziphakamiso ezivela kumculi wendawo owaziwayo, ukusuka kwiprofesa ezininzi zobugcisa kwiYunivesithi kunye nomgxeki wobugcisa basekuhlaleni, isixa sawo onke ama-appraisals siyakuthwala ubunzima kwaye sibe nefuthe elikhulu kwiingcamango zakho.
Ulwalamano lwentsapho lunokudlala indima kwindlela ukubonakalisa ukuhlolwa kweefomathi kuchaphazela ngayo iimvakalelo ngokuzimela. Ngokomzekelo, abantwana abakhulayo nabazali abahlala benika ama-appraisal amahle kwaye axhasayo baya kuba nempembelelo yokuzimela kunye nokuzithemba ngakumbi xa bekhula. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ukuthembeka kuyaqhubeka kudlala indima kwindlela ezi vavanyo zihlolwa ngayo. Isigwebo esivela kumzali siya kuthwala ubunzima ngaphezu kovavanyo lokusukela kumntakwabo omncinci.