Ubuntu bakho budibaniswe namaqondo akho
Sonke siva kunye nokuphendula uxinzelelo ngeendlela ezizodwa, ngoko ukwazi indlela ubuntu bakho obuchaphazela ngayo amanqanaba akho oxinzelelo kunokuba luncedo. Ukuxinwa okulandelayo kunye nokuvavanya kunokukunceda ukuba uziqonde kakuhle kunye nolwalamano lwakho noxinzelelo, kwaye ufumene izixhobo zokulawula uxinzelelo.
1 - Ngaba ndingumntu othe tye okanye ngendlala?
Ngaba uhlala ufumana amathuba okanye iindlela zendlela? Isicatshulwa sakho sichaze into enokuphila ngayo, nendlela ochaza ngayo amava. Ukhohluko olunamaqhinga (kunye nokungabonakaliyo). Khangela ukuba ziphi iindawo zakho ezikhethileyo, kwaye ufumene izixhobo ukuze ukhanyise ihlabathi lakho.
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2 - Ngaba ndingumPhepheli?
Abaphengululi bathatha ubugqwetha kumgangatho ohlukileyo, ogqithiseleyo kunokuba bazuze phezulu. I-Perfectionists idla ukuxininisa ngakumbi, nandipha ubomi obungaphantsi, kwaye kubangela ukuba uxinzelelo lwabo bajikeleze nabo. Ngaba ngamanye amaxesha uyazibuza ukuba umnqweno wakho wokugqwesa udlula umgca wokugqibelela? Lo mbuzo weshumi elinesihlanu umbuzo wokugqibelela unokukunceda ukuba uziqonde kangcono ngokwakho, ubone ukuhlukana phakathi kokugqibelela kunye nokuphumelela okuphezulu, kwaye ufumane apho ukuthambekela kwakho kukukho.
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3 - Ngaba ndiyi-Adrenaline Junkie?
Ngaba uvakalelwa kukuba uxinzelelo luya kukulandela apho uya khona? Ngaba ufihliwe ngasese kwi-adrenaline ezayo noxinzelelo kunye nomdlalo? Olu vavanyo luyakunceda ukuba unobungqina bemfihlo ye-adrenaline, kwaye ukuba ukhona, uza kukunika iingcebiso kunye nezixhobo zokugcina ubuncinci bamaqondo akho phantsi ngelixa ugcina ubomi obonwabisayo
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4 - Ngaba Ndiyakhathazeka Kakhulu?
Ingaba lakho izinga lokuxhalaba lanele ngokwaneleyo ukukukhuthaza ukuba wenze utshintsho oluhle ebomini bakho, okanye ucinga ukuba unokukhathazeka kakhulu? Uvavanyo oluzenzekelayo lwemibuzo eli-10 lunokukunceda uhlolisise izinga lakho lokuxhalabisa nokunyamekela ukukhathazeka, ngoko unokubona ukuba unobungakanani obukhulu bokuxinzezeleka kunye nokuxhalabisa. (Ukuba ucinga ukuba unakho ukukhathazeka ngengxaki, le mvavanyo ayifanele ithathe indawo yombono wengcali, kodwa ingakunika ingcamango yokuba ingaba akho amanqanaba okuxhalaba 'aqhelekileyo'.)
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5 - Ingaba Ndinomntu Olungenayo?
Ukuvuselela ngumgangatho osinceda sibhekane nezixinzelelo zemihla ngemihla kunye nempilo ebalulekileyo. Ngoxa ezinye zokuqina zidibaniswa neempawu zobuntu, kunokuningi ongakwenza ukuze uhlakulele izinga lakho lokuqina, kwaye le mibuzo ingakunceda! Imibuzo yenzelwe ukulinganisa isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, imikhwa kunye neempawu ezihambelana nokuzinza. Iziphumo zakho ziquka uvavanyo kunye nezixhobo ezijoliswe kuwe kuphela.
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6 - Ngaba Ndiyidla ngokomoya?
Ukuxinezeleka kunokuncedisa ukuzuza ubunzima ngeendlela ezininzi. Ukuba unenkathazo ngobunzima bakho kwaye uzibuze ukuba yeyiphi indima yokuxinzelela ingadlala, okanye ukuba ufuna nje ulwazi kunye nezixhobo zokuguqula impilo, le yimibuzo yakho! Hlola indlela ophila ngayo, kwaye ufumene izixhobo zokutya ngokomzimba.
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7 - Ngaba ndingumNxibelelwano wokuXhobisa?
Ngamanye amaxesha akusikho into oyithethayo, yindlela othetha ngayo enokwenza okanye ukuphula imeko, okanye ulwalamano olupheleleyo. Ngaba udibana nabanye ngokuqinisekileyo, okanye ngaba ubangela ukungqubuzana okungakumbi okungadingekile kunye noxinzelelo ebomini bakho ngeendlela ezinobundlobongela, ezingabonakaliyo, okanye ezinobundlobongela ezinxulumene nabanye?
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8 - Ingaba Ndiyifake Iimpawu zobuntu?
Ngaba unomntu wohlobo lwe-A? (Ucinga ukuba abanye abantu ebomini bakho bangathini kulo mbuzo?) Le mibuzo iyakunceda ukhangele kwiimpawu ezicacileyo kunye nezifihlakeleyo ekuphatheni kwakho kunye neepatheni ezinokukunceda ukuba uhlole nokuba awubonisi iimpawu zobuntu beCandelo A kwaye uzuze kwiinguqulelo ezithile ukugcina impilo yakho, ulonwabo kunye noxinzelelo
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