Iingcamango ezintathu eziqhelekileyo
Ngosuku lwam lokuqala lwekholeji, ndahlala kwindawo yokufundela enkulu yokufunda i-auditorium kwaye ndalindela ukuba ikhosi yam yokuqala yengqondo iqale. I-Psychology 101 yinto efunekayo yeklasi yezemfundo yabafundi abayizinkulungwane zabafundi, kwaye njengabantu abaninzi, ndineenombono ezinokuqala malunga noko kukulindela kwiklasi.
Andiyena yedwa.
Intombazana ende ende eneenwele ezibomvu zincinci zahlala phantsi kwam kwaye saqala ukuthetha.
Wayeyindoda, kodwa le nto yayingeniso yakhe yokuqala kwengqondo.
"Ndicinga ukuba kuya kumnandi," wathetha. "Ndihlala ndifuna 'ukunciphisa' ubuchopho babantu!" Uthe njengoko wayegubungula iminwe yakhe phezu kwentloko yam kwaye wayigubungela iileki ezinjenge-cartoon villain.
Ngehora lokuqala lokuqala kwiklasi, ndakhawuleza ndafunda ukuba i-psychology ininzi ngaphezu kwengqondo. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akukho "intloko yehla" echaphazelekayo! Ngelishwa, kusekho ezininzi zeengcamango kunye neengcamango eziphosakeleyo apho malunga nabafundi beengqondo kunye neengqondo.
Ndisanda kubabuza abafundi kwikhasi lethu le-Facebook ukuba babelane ngezinye iingcamango ezingalunganga abantu abanalo malunga neengqondo zengqondo. Akumangalisi ukuba abantu abaninzi baxelele ukuva uhlobo olufanayo lokuphendula xa bethetha abanye abantu ukuba bangumfundi weengqondo. Nazi ezinye ezimbalwa zeengcamango ezingundoqo ezenziwa ngabafundi bethu rhoqo.
"Ngaba uya kufunda ingqondo yam?"
I-Psychology ngokuqinisekileyo isifundo sengqondo nokuziphatha, kodwa oku kunika abafundi abanengqondo ukuba bakwazi "ukufunda" ingqondo yomntu.
Ewe, i- psychologist okanye umntu onesiqalo esinamandla ekufundeni ukuziphatha komntu unokukwazi ukwenza uvavanyo oluchanileyo malunga nawe. Basenokukwazi ukuqonda isizathu sokuba wenze izinto ezithile. Basenokukwazi ukwenza izibikezelo ezichanekileyo malunga nokuziphatha kwakho kwexesha elizayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo akubenzi ukuba baphile.
Kuthetha nje ukuba banolwazi oluqinileyo ngengqondo yoluntu kunye nezakhono ezigqwesileyo zokuqwalasela.
Ngaba uya ku-psychoanalyze? "
Ewe, i-psychoanalyst eyaziwayo yaseVenese i- Sigmund Freud isengomnye wabantu abadumileyo kwimbali yengqondo. Nangona phantse bonke abafundi befunda malunga neengcamango zikaFreud, ngokuyininzi kwiinjongo zembono. Abafundi abancinci bayaboniswa kwi-Freudian ukuqeqeshwa namhlanje ngaphandle kokubhalisa kwiziko le-psychoanalytic. Umntu osenokwenzeka ukuba unengqondo ye-psychoanalyze nguwe othiwa "isitulo seengqondo zengalo" ongenalo mvelaphi kwizengqondo.
"Ngaba uya kundingca?"
Kukho ngokwenene izazi zeengqondo ezizakhono ekusebenziseni unyango lwe- hypnosis . Uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba i-hypnosis ingasetyenziselwa ngempumelelo iinjongo ezininzi, ukususela ekulawuleni intlungu ekunciphiseni isicupunu esiphumela ngenxa ye-chemotherapy. Nangona kunjalo, i-hypnosis yinkcubeko ekhethekileyo kwaye akusiyo yonke i-psychologists eqeqeshiwe ekusebenziseni kwayo. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuxhomekeka kubandakanya ukuthatha inxaxheba ngokuzikhethela, kwaye nangona kubonakaliswa kwizenzo ezithandwayo, awukwazi ukuxhomekeka ekuthandeni kwakho.
Ucinga ukuba ziphi iingcamango ezinkulu malunga nabafundi beengqondo?