Izithethe ezili-12 zikhonza njengesikhokelo okanye incwadana yamaqela angama-12 anjengeenxila ezingabonakaliyo (AA) kunye ne-Al-Anon. Apha sixoxa ngeNkcubeko 6.
Yisiphi isiko 6 Sithetha
Ukuze kugcinwe ukunyaniseka kwenkqubo kwaye igcine injongo yazo yokomoya, amaqela angama-12 ancedayo awayivumeli nayiphi na imibutho engaphandle kunye nezizathu.
I-Tradition 6 : Amaqela ethu akafanele akhuthaze, ahlawulise okanye aboleke igama lethu kunoma yiphina indawo enxulumene nayo okanye ngaphandle kwamashishini, hleze iingxaki zemali, ipropati kunye nodumo zisishukumisele kwiinjongo zethu eziphambili. "
Kwaye i-Al-Anon ingongezelela ithi: "Nangona inxalenye ehlukeneyo, kufuneka sihlale sisebenzisana noTywala."
I-Long Form Version yeNkcubeko 6
I-AA inenguqu yohlobo olude lwazo zonke izithethe ezizichaza ngokubanzi. Nantsi ifomu elide leNkcubeko 6:
"Iingxaki zemali, ipropati kunye negunya kunokusitshintsha ngokulula kwiinjongo zethu zokomoya." Ngoko ke, sicinga ukuba nayipropati eninzi yokwenza uqobo ku-AA kufuneka ihlanganiswe kwaye ilawulwe ngokwahlukileyo, ngaloo ndlela izahlula izinto ezivela kwimoya. iqela, njengaloo nto, akufanele liqhube kumashishini. Izixhobo zesekondari ku-AA, ezifana neeklabhu okanye izibhedlele ezifuna ipropati okanye ulawulo oluninzi, kufuneka zifakwe kunye kwaye zibekwe ngokwahlukileyo ukuba, ukuba kunyanzelekile, zinokulahlwa ngokukhululekile ngamaqela. Ngenxa yoko izixhobo ezinjalo akufanele zisebenzise igama le-AA.Ulawulo lwabo lufanele lube luxanduva lwabo kuphela abantu abaxhasayo ngemali.Ii-clubs, abaphathi be-AA bavame ukukhetha kodwa izibhedlele, kunye nezinye indawo zokuhluthwa, kufuneka ngaphandle kweqela le-AA lingabambisana nantoni na, intsebenziswano enjalo ayifanele ihambe ngokubambisana okanye ukuvumela, okwenene okanye okuthethiweyo. Iqela le-AA lingazibophelela kumntu. "
Ithetha ukuthini
Njengabantu ngabanye, amalungu amaqela angama-12 enkxaso amaqela akhululekile ukuvumela, ukuxhaswa ngemali okanye ukudibanisa nayiphi na inhlangano, inkolo, iqela lezopolitiko, uncedo, okanye intlangano yoluntu abayifunayo. Kodwa njengeqela, ukuvunyelwa okunjalo kunokukhokelela ekungaqondani nokudideka.
Ngemibutho emininzi yangaphandle kwiminyaka yamuva izama ukusebenzisa igama leNxilaba engaziwa okanye i- Al-Anon Family Groups ukuba ikhuthaze iinkqubo zonyango okanye unyango oluye lusetyenziswayo, kubaluleke kunanini ngaphambili ukuba iNkolelo 6 ibonwe.
Nangona amalungu angamncoma okanye asebenze ngemibutho enjalo, iqela liphela kufuneka liphephe ukudibanisa negama layo kunye namashishini angaphandle, oko kukuthi amaziko enyango okanye amayeza.
Kutheni i-Tradition 6 ibalulekile
Iiprojekthi ezifanelekileyo ezifana nokuqala iklabhu ye-12 okanye ukuxhasa indawo yokukhusela abatshatileyo akufanele bangeniswe njengeprojekthi yeqela, kodwa kunokuba ngumzamo wamalungu njengabantu ngabanye, ukuba bayathanda. Ngokungafanelekiyo, ezi ziimeko zingabandakanya imizabalazo malunga nemali kunye nokulawula kwaye inokuguqula iqela kunye nobudlelwane obude kunye nokugxilwa kweyona nto ephambili ekujoliswe kuyo.
Amalungu angena kumagumbi nganye ngeveki efuna uncedo kumava, amandla kunye nethemba lamanye amalungu. Le nkqubo inokuphazanyiswa ukuba iqela lichitha inxalenye yexesha elibiweyo lokuxubusha imisebenzi engaphandle. Xa ingxoxo yeqela ilawulwa yimiba engaphandle, ibamba amalungu ngamnye ngexesha lokuhlangana. Ngamafutshane, isiko 6 siqinisekisa ubunye phakathi kweqela.
> Imithombo:
> I-Al-Anon Iintsapho zeeNtsapho. Amasiko alishumi elinesibini.
> Utywala a ngaziwa. Izithethe ezilishumi elinesibini (i-Long Form) .