Abeendaba badlala inxalenye enkulu emfanekisweni womzimba weselula. Ukupapashwa kumaphephancwadi aselula kunye nakumabonwakude abancinci ngokugqithiseleyo kudla ngokugqithiseleyo imifanekiso engabonakaliyo. Enyanisweni, imizekelo yanamhlanje ilinganisa i-23% ngaphantsi komfazi ophakathi. Ukuqwalasela umntu oqhelekileyo eUnited States ubona iintengiso ezi-3,000 kumaphephancwadi, amabhodi amabhodi, kunye nomabonwakude imihla ngemihla, wakho umfana ufumana umyalezo ongafanelekanga ngomfanekiso womzimba kaninzi.
Iithagethi ezijoliswe kumantombazana ezisemagunyeni zigxininisa umgangatho wokuncipha njengobungqina. Xa uyeka kwaye ucinge malunga nokuba ubude bomyinge kunye nobukhulu bemodeli ngu-5'10 "kunye ne-110 lbs, kwaye ukuphakama kunye nesisindo somfazi oqhelekileyo ngu-5'4" kunye ne-145 lbs, kulula ukubona ukuba kutheni le kudala umngcipheko wempilo yamantombazana amancinci.
Ingxaki yamaphephandaba esebenzisa amantombazana ahamba ngendlela encinci kwaye engaphilile ayizange iphumelele kwiminyaka, nangona imicimbi ebangela ukuba amantombazana amantombazana aziwe kakuhle. Kungekudala ndandibukela umboniso obizwa ngokuba yi-Top Model Model yaseMerika kwaye wayethuswa ngamagqabantshintshi ala mabhinqa aselula. Unokubona ngokwenene amathambo ejikeleza yonke indawo. Oku kubonisa abafazi, okwenene akuyiyo ingxaki, kodwa inyaniso yokuba isebenzisa kuphela abafazi ababengabantwana beposta kwi-pro-ana yinkathazo enkulu. Amaphephandaba kufuneka aphendule ngempembelelo yayo ebusheni bethu, njengoko sele sele beyazi ngemicimbi yomzimba evelisayo.
Abeendaba bajolise kubafana abaninzi kule mihla ngokunjalo. I-Skinny jeans kunye neentengiso ze-boyny ezikhulayo ziyavela kumaphephancwadi aselula kunye nama-posters amakhulu kwiivenkile kwiivenkile. Bazali, nceda uqaphele ukuba unyana wakho osemtsha akaxhomekanga kwimicimbi yomzimba.
Ndifuna kwakhona ukuzisa enye ingongoma phambi kokuba ndiludwebe indlela onokunciphisa ngayo imiba yomfanekiso womntwana wakho kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba xa umboniso wakho oyintandokazi enomnye intombazana enamandla kakhulu kwaye abalinganiswa abakuboniswayo bahlala bebonisa ukuba ukugqithisa Abantu banokubakho amahle kakhulu, oko akunakunceda imiba yesitho somntwana wakho.
Ubonisa apho abantwana babonakala ngathi bakho abantwana kunye nabahlobo babo ngezixhobo eziqhelekileyo zendlela yokuhamba. Bonisa ukuba kubonisa ukuba kuyinto evamile.
Indlela Yokunceda Umzimba WeNdodakazi Yomntwana
Unokukunceda intombi yakho inciphisa umphumo wendaba kumfanekiso wakhe womzimba ngo:
- Nciphisa intombi yakho yentombazana kule hlobo lokukhangisa. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uwathabathe wonke omagazini abaselula, baqaphele ukuba ngubani na othabatha le ngxaki yomntwana. Zihlolisise esitolo ngaphambi kokuthenga ubhaliso.
- Qalisa inkqubo yokwazisa ngeentengiso esikolweni sakhe.
- Thetha naye ngeengozi zempilo zokuba mncinci kwaye usebenzise amajelo amaxesha afundekayo.
- Thetha naye malunga nendlela iifoto zeemodeli ziguqulwa ngayo kwaye i-airbrushed.
> Imithombo: uSoy Unica; CDC, CDHS