Isimo Sabazali 'Sikhathazeke Kakhulu,' UAA uthi
Abaninzi abaselula bayifumana ukufumana utywala lula kwaye esinye sezizathu zabo baninzi bafumana utywala kwindawo efanelekileyo: imizi yabo.
Abafana abanokufumana ulula ukusela utywala kuba lula ukufumana ikhaya labo, uphando lufumene ukuba inani labazali kunye nabanye abantu abadala bayalisela utywala kwesi sizukulwana sabaphuza.
Uphando olwenziwa yi-American Medical Association, aluhlolisanga nje ukufumaneka kotywala kwabancinci, kodwa lujonge nemibono yabazali kunye nokuziphatha ngokuphathelele ukubonelela utywala kubaselula.
Abazali Ukunikezela Utywala Kubantwana
"Ukususela kwimpembelelo yempilo yoluntu, ezi ziphumo ziphazamisekile," kusho uJ. Edward Hill, MD, umongameli we-AMA. "Nangona kukukhathazeka kakhulu ukubona ukuba abantwana abancinane, ingakumbi amantombazana amancinci, bafumana utywala, kuyamangalisa ukwazi ukuba abantu abadala abasemthethweni, nokuba ngabazali, banikezela utywala."
I-poll, ehlolisise abatsha abaneminyaka eyi-13-18, yafumanisa ukuba malunga nesiqingatha esichazwe ukuba sele itywala ngexesha elithile. Kuwo onke amaqela, amantombazana ecinga ukuba ahlale ephakamileyo kunamakhwenkwe ekufumaneni utywala.
Iipolisi kunye nemithetho eyaxhaswa
Kwi-poll yabantu abadala, malunga nabazali abane base-US abanezingane, abaneminyaka engama-12 ukuya kwe-20 (iipesenti ezingama-26), bathi bavuma ukuba intsha kufuneka ikwazi ukusela ekhaya kunye nabazali babo abakhona.
Imigaqo kunye nokuzama ukunyanzelisa umyalelo wokumisela abantwaba ekufumaneni utywala kubalulekile, kodwa le nkcazelo ibonisa ukuba kulula ukuthintela njani loo migaqo nemithetho xa ngaba abathengi abaneminyaka emthethweni beyona nto ibangela umthombo wobutywala kubantwana, "kusho u-Hill. "Kwaye nabazali abangathengi abantwana babo bangaba yimithombo engabonakaliyo xa utywala lwabo ekhaya lungahlali lukhuselekile."
Kulula ukuba iNtsholongwane iTywala
Ababini kwabathathu, abaneminyaka eli-13-18 ubudala, bathi kulula ukufumana utywala emakhaya abo ngaphandle kobazali bayazi ngalo. Esinye sesithathu saphendula ukuba kulula ukufumana utywala kubazali babo ngokuziwayo, okwandayo ukuya kuma-40 ekhulwini xa uvela kumzali womhlobo. Kwaye omnye oneminyaka emine ubudala uye waya kwiqela apho abancinci bebesela phambi kwabazali.
"Abazali bavumela abantwana abangaphantsi koonyana ukuba baphuze phantsi kolawulo lwabo bangaphantsi kwezinto eziyingozi," kusho u-Hill. " Ukulimala kunye neengozi zemoto emva kokuba amaqela anikezelwe ngabazali asikhumbuza ukuba akukho mzali onokukwazi ukulawula ngokupheleleyo izenzo zentsha egxininisiweyo, ngexesha okanye emva kweqela. Umyalezo oyintloko oonyana abava ukuba ukusela ngokungekho mthethweni kulungile."
Abazali banikezwa ngotywala
Ezinye iziphumo eziphambili zezi pollo ziquka:
- Phantse enye ineminyaka emine ubudala, abaneminyaka eli-13 ukuya kwe18, kunye nenye yamantombazana amathathu, abaneminyaka eli-16 ukuya ku-18 ubudala, bathi abazali babo baye bawanika ngotywala, kwaye abatsha abafumene utswala babika ukuba, kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezidlulileyo, abazali abathengisi kathathu ngokulinganayo.
- Ngoxa i-71 ekhulwini yabazali abanabantwana abaneminyaka engama-12 ukuya ku-20, bengavumelani nento yokuba ukuphuza kwentombazana kwakulungile ukuba ngaba umzali ukhona, ama-76 ekhulwini bacinga ukuba intsha ifumana utywala kumzali womntu-kwaye bayayazi.
- Omnye kwabazali abane kwabantwana, abaneminyaka eli-12 ukuya kwe-20 (iipesenti ezingama-25), bathi baye bavumela abantwaba babo ukuba basele kunye nolawulo lwabo kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezidlulileyo. Phantse enye kwi-12 (iipesenti eziyi-8) ibonise ukuba baye bavumela abahlobo babo bebantwana ukuba baphuze phantsi kolawulo lwabo kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezidlulileyo.
- Ngoxa iipesenti ezisibhozo kuphela zabazali babantwana abaneminyaka engama-12 ukuya ku-20 babonisa ukuba bavumele ukuba abantwana babo beselula kunye nabahlobo bakhe basele kunye neendleko kwiinyanga ezintandathu ezedlulileyo, i-21 ekhulwini yabashumi baye kwindibano apho utywala lunikezwa ngabazali bomnye umntu. Kwaye i-27 ekhulwini yabantwana abaye kwindibano apho ulutsha lwaphuza kunye nabazali. Oku kungavumi ukuba abazali bayakwazi ukuba abanye abazali bavumela abantwana babo ukuba basele.
"I-AMA ihalalisela abazali abadumalayo kwaye bavumelanga ukusela," kutsho iNtaba. "Siyathemba ukuba abazali abanjalo bazimisele ukumela impilo yabo yabantwana baya kuba nolwazi olungakumbi kwimimandla yabo, ukuvumela abantwana nabanye abazali ukuba bazikho mntu omdala okufanele afake isigwebo sabo kubazali abancinci. Izingozi zeemoto , ukulimala kunye nokuhlaselwa, kunye nomonakalo ongenakucingeka kwengqondo akuyiyo imicimbi yokuhamba kuyo nayiphi na umntwana. "
Utywala lukho na
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