Kuyacaca kuwe ukuba iqabane lakho lifuna ukubona ugqirha. Kodwa umyeni wakho okanye umfazi, nokuba kunjalo, akunjalo ngokucacileyo okanye bafuni ukuhamba. Kubuhlungu kakhulu kwaye kuyichukumisa xa iqabane lingenalo injongo yokunyamekela iimfuno zakhe zempilo. Ikwaqala kwakhona ukuphazamisa umtshato wakho.
Kuqhelekile ukuba abafazi balwe nale ngxaki.
Amadoda ngokukhethekileyo anenkani xa bebona oogqirha. Mhlawumbi baziva bengenakuvakala okanye ukuba ngumqondiso wobuthathaka ukubona ugqirha. Abasetyhini bajwayele ukubona oogqirha rhoqo, njenge-OB / GYN. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amadoda aphelisa ukungazange alalele abafazi bawo malunga nalokhu.
Izizathu Abantu Abafuni Ukubona Udokotela okanye Ufune Uncedo
- Ukuqulunqa ukuba ingxaki iya kuhamba.
- Ukoyika oko ugqirha uya kuthetha.
- Ukukholelwa ukuba oku akusixesha elifanelekileyo lokugula.
- Uxakeke kakhulu.
- Andiyithandi ngamava onke amayeza.
- Ukunyamekela unyango kakhulu.
- Ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kwigumbi lokulinda.
- Ukuthotyelwa malunga nokugula okanye imeko yonyango.
- Ukukhathazeka ngokubhekwa njengobuthathaka.
- Uloyiko lweenkqubo zonyango ezibuhlungu.
- Amava amandulo adlulileyo kunye nodokotela othile, isikhungo sezempilo okanye inkqubo yonyango.
- Ukulahla malunga nesimo sezempilo samanje.
Oko Umele Utsho Nokwenza
- Xelela lakho iqabane ukuba unenkxalabo. Thetha naye ngoloyiko ovakalelwa ngayo kule meko.
- Thetha nomlingane wakho malunga neemvakalelo zakho ezihambelana nomphumo wokwenqaba uncedo okanye unyango onakho.
- Yamkela indima yakho njengomlingane kwaye ungengomama womlingane wakho. Umlingane wakho ngumdala kwaye unako ukwenza izigqibo zonyango.
- Tshela lakho iqabane ukuba ufuna ukuba ugqirha ugqirha ngenxa yothando lwakho. Unokunikela kwakhona ukuba uhambe naye.
- Buza ukuba unokwenza i-aphoyintimenti yeqabane lakho ukuba ubone ugqirha.
- Ukuba ukholelwa ukuba umyeni wakho wenqatshelwe ukufumana unonophelo lwengonyango okanye yengqondo yingozi yokuphila, ngoko kufuneka ufumane uncedo lobuchule ekufumaneni umlingane wakho uncedo olufunekayo.
- Cinga ukuba ubone umcebisi ngokwakho ukunceda ukujongana nomxube wakho weemvakalelo. Kubalulekile ukuba uzinakekele kwaye wamukele iimvakalelo zakho, uxhala, njl njl
Oko Akufanele Ukusho okanye Uyenze
- Musa ukuqhubela phambili.
- Musa ukumisela ukuqeshwa nodokotela ngaphandle kweqabane lakho.
Musa ukuqhubeka neengxabano ezingapheliyo malunga nale ngxaki.
Musa ukulawula lakho iqabane ukuba lifumane uncedo.
Musa ukusongela ukushiya umtshato (ngaphandle kokuba uthetha oko).
Ingxaki yengqondo ingabangela uxinzelelo olukhulu emtshatweni. Oku kudla ngokugqithiseleyo, njengoko iqabane lingenalo ingqiqo kwingxaki. Zomibini iingxaki zengqondo nezonyango ezishiywanga zingakhange ziphendulwe zingaqala ukuchaphazela yonke inkqubo yeentsapho. Ukuba umlingani uyaqhubeka engafuni ukufumana uncedo, mhlawumbi ukuqala ngokucebisa ndawonye kungabangela isango elivelisayo ekuncedeni lakho iqabane ukuba lifumane uncedo lwayo.
Ukuba lakho iqabane lingavumi ukumbona ugqirha, akukho nto ongayenza ngaphandle kokuba neenkxalabo zokukhathazeka, ukwesaba kunye nothando.
Ihlala ibilisa kwixanduva lomntu. Ngelishwa, akukho nto enye ongayenza. Umlingane ongenakufumana uncedo olufunekayo uya kuthumela umyalezo kumlingane wakhe ngokungazenzisiyo ukuba akabalulekanga ngokwaneleyo ukwenza njalo.