Usuku lomntwana wakho wokugqibela ushiya ekhaya, nokuba yikholeji, umsebenzi, umtshato okanye nayiphi na isizathu esithile, kunjengotshintsho ebomini bomzali njengoko kwakunjalo xa wamkela umntwana wakho wokuqala ekhaya lakho. Indlela ocinga ngayo ngawe kunye nezinto eziphambili - unomzali kwaye ubeka abantwana bakho kuqala - awusayikuthi ungubani okanye ukuba ufuna ukucinga njani ngobomi bakho.
Ukungabi nalinye isidlo sesiphelo kukuphela kwesigaba sobomi bakho, kodwa sisisiqalo esitsha esinomdla.
Ukucwangciswa kwexesha elizayo
Kungenzeka ukuba ukhangele isidleke sakho esingenanto kwaye uziva udabukile kwaye ucinezelekile , ulahlekelwa abantwana bakho ngokukrakra kwaye unqwenela ukuba ungabuyela uze wenze kwakhona kwakhona. Endaweni yokufuna oko kwakukho, ixesha lokuba uqale ukucwangcisa nokuphupha oko kuza kuza. Ukuba uyisitsha esitsha esingenanto, zinike ixesha lokutshintsha kwaye uzive ulahlekelwe ngumdla wakho wosuku wosuku lokukhulisa abantwana bakho - kodwa qalisa ukucinga malunga nento ongathanda ukuyenza ngokulandelayo.
Izilwanyana ezininzi ezingenanto ziyazi apho ziqala ukuzalisa ixesha ebezizinikezele ekunyamekeleni abantwana babo. Indawo enokuqala ukuqala kukujonga emva kwakho xa usengumntwana kunye nento oyenandiphayo yokudlala. Mhlawumbi uthanda ukuthatha okanye ukuchitha iiyure ukudala imifanekiso enemibala kwiincwadi zokubala. Mhlawumbi uhlala uqala kumgca wokuphicothwa kwidlala yesikolo.
Mhlawumbi uthanda ukudlala ibhola yebhola okanye i-tennis. Usenokuba wadala iindaba ezicacileyo malunga needodoli okanye izilwanyana ezigxiliweyo. Kutheni ungayi kuphinda uphinde ubuyekelele loo mi sebenzi kwaye uthabathe ibrashi yepeyinti, iivolontiya kwindawo yokuzonwabisa yasekhaya, uthathe izifundo ezimbalwa zeetennis okanye ubhale ibali elifutshane?
Ukuphuma Ehlabathini
Ukubazali kunokufuna ixesha elide elichithwe kuyo nakwiikhaya kunye noluntu.
Usuke uhamba ngokusesikweni kwaye uzinike imihla ngemihla. Ngoku lixesha elikhulu lokuphuma kwaye ubone ihlabathi. Ngoku unokuhamba ngeendlela ezide ucinga ngazo ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokunakekela abantwana. Izikhefu akusafuneki ukuba zithathwe neengxaki zezikole zezingane zakho. Iiveki zeeveki, ezinokubonakala zingenanto kwaye zingapheliyo ngaphandle kwemisebenzi yabantwana ukuya okanye ukucwangcisa ukukwazi ukuza kuhlola iinkalo zengingqi ongazange uzivakalise ngaphambili, okanye uthathe uhambo lohambo kwindawo ethile ohlala ufuna ukuyibona.
Ukunciphisa
Ukucwangciswa kwexesha elizayo njenge-nester engenanto kunokubonakala kunzima kwaye akunakwenzeka ukucinga. Indlu yakho enkulu yentsapho ingaba yindawo yemyuziyam yakho yangaphambili ngaphandle kweenguqu ezithile. Unokuba nomdla ekunciphiseni, okanye usenokufuna ukuhlaziya i-decor yakho kancane. Ngandlela-thile, inqubo yokucinga indawo yakho yokuhlala ayikho nje into evuyisayo kodwa yindlela enhle yokuguqula ukucinga kwakho ebomini bomzali kwimpilo ye-nester engenanto. Ukuba akukho nto, kufuneka uvale iingcango zegumbi lakho lezithuba zekliniki zexeshana kwaye uziqhelise ukuhamba ngaphaya kwazo ngaphandle kokuba uzive uluhlaza. Ukunciphisa indlela yindlela enhle yokuba ungayikuvumela nje ukuhamba kwezinye iintlungu zentambo engenanto ngokushiya ikhaya lentsapho kwaye uhlala kwindawo entsha, kodwa iyakwazi ukukhulula imali ukuze ikuvumele ukuphishekela ezinye izinto.
Unokufuna ukuthenga i-RV okanye isitrato, okanye unokufuna ukubeka imali ngaphandle komhlalaphantsi wakho. Nantoni na enifuna ukuyenza, kuyonwaba ukuba ukwazi ukucwangcisa oko ufuna ukukwenza, kungekhona oko abantwana bakho bafuna.
Ngaphambi kokuba sibe nabantwana sicinga ukuba ubomi bethu buya kuba njani ngelixa sikhulisa iintsapho zethu. Siyazi ukuba kunomlinganiselo wemihla ngemihla - ukususela ebusaneni ukuya kumncinane, isikolo sokuqala esikolweni esikolweni, isikolo esiphakathi ukuya esikolweni esiphakamileyo ukuya kwiikholeji. Abaninzi bethu - abaninzi bethu - aboni ubomi obudlulileyo ukuba xa sicinga ngekamva-kodwa kusekho ixesha elininzi kunye namathuba amaninzi ngaphambili kwethu.
Ubomi emva kokukhulisa abantwana kunokuza kuzalisekisa, kuyonwabile kwaye kuyonwabile njengoko ufuna ukuba kube yinto - kuthatha ukuphupha okufutshane kunye nokucwangcisa okufutshane ukwenza ukuba kwenzeke.