Indlela Yokunqanda Umxube Ngaphandle Kokujonga I-Uncool
Abantu abaninzi bafumana imeko apho banikwa inambuzane. Ukuthi u-no unokuziva ungenangxaki-awufuni abanye bakubone njengokwenene, ukugweba okanye ukwesaba, kodwa unesizathu sokuba ungafuni ukusebenzisa inambuzane. Izindlela ezifanelekileyo zokuthi hayi inambuzane inesidingo, iimpendulo ezihloniphekileyo kwisibonelelo, esibonelela isizathu esingenakuphikiswa ngaso. Nazi iindidi zam ezintlanu eziphezulu zokulahla ithokheni.
I-I-Driving
Esi sizathu sokugqibela. Kwaye nangona kukho iingcinga ezininzi ngeengcambu ezijikelezayo, kuquka ukuba akuchaphazeli ukukwazi ukuqhuba, kwaye awukwazi ukungena enkingeni nomthetho wokuqhuba umqhubi ngaphantsi kwefuthe le-marijuana, oku akunjalo. Ukuqhuba ngaphantsi kwefuthe laso nasiphi na isicatshulwa esikhathazayo sigxina ubomi abasengozini, kubandakanywa nokwakho. Le mpendulo nayo inendima enkulu kubantu abathile, nabo banokufuna isizathu esihle sokuthi hayi kwi-cannabis. Nabani na onicinezelayo ukusebenzisa i-cannabis emva kokuba unike impendulo akufanelekile ukuphulaphula.
2 - Hayi mbulelo, ndiyilinga kwaye andizange ndiyithande
Le mpendulo ibaluleke ngakumbi xa unabantu abaninzi abazama ukugubha inambuzane okokuqala, kwaye unyanzelekile koontanga ukuba ube esinye sezihlwele. Iyakucacisa onke amaqhinga achukumisayo abangela ukuba abanye ababhemayo basebenzise ukubonisa ukuba awukwazi ukuba awufuni ukusebenzisa inambuzane ngaphandle kokuba uzame. Kuyacaca ukuba kukho into enyanisekileyo-ukuba awuyisebenzisi inambuzane ngaphambili, unokuziva ukhululekile usebenzisa impendulo eyahlukileyo. Musa ukubanjwa ekuchazeni ukuba bekukuphi ukukhwela inambuzane ongayithandi -ukuba uyabuzwa, uthi, "Andizange ndiyithande." Akukho mntu unokukwazi ukuxubusha naloo nto.
3 - Ndiyeke ukutshaya
Oku kuyimpendulo enhle ukuba awufuni ukufumana njengezichasene neziyobisi. Uninzi lwabantu ababhemayo banokugxeka kakhulu ukubhema ugwayi, bethetha ukuba i- nicotine yingozi kuneziyobisi , kwaye ingozi yokubuyela emva kokutshaya i-cigarette emva kokutshaya i-mariju kufuneka ibonakale. Nabani na ocinezela umntu otshaya ukutshaya ukutshaya ngokucacileyo ukugqiba ukusilela kwintlonipho kunye nokuqonda iingozi zokutshaya kwaye akafanelanga inkampani yakho.
4 - Ndifuna ukugcina iNtloko ecacileyo
Impendulo kule mpendulo ithi, "Hayi, ndinomsebenzi ngomso," "Hayi, ndiyabonga, ndinokuqala kwasekuseni," "Hayi, ndiyabonga ukuba ndigqibe umsebenzi wesikolo kamva," okanye "Akukho Ndiyabulela, andifuni ukuzivakalelwa. " Le ndlela yindlela enkulu yokwenza abantu bazi ukuba iziyobisi aziyikulawula ubomi bakho, kwaye aziyi kuvumela ukuba ziphazamise ukusebenza kwimihla ngemihla. Ithetha ukuba unobomi obungaphezu kwezinto ezenzekayo kwigumbi ngexesha. Ukugcina intloko ecacileyo kungabalulekanga kuwo wonke umntu, kodwa kufanele kube kuwe.
5 - Hayi, andiyizidakamizwa
Le yimpendulo ekhohlakeleyo ukuba ulunge, kodwa ukuba uyakwenza, kunokukunceda ukuba ugweme ininzi yezibonelelo ezidakisayo zamachiza esikhathini esizayo. Ngenxa yokuba uthetha ngawe, kwaye akukho mntu, ungayithumela umyalezo ngaphandle kwezahlulelo zexabiso malunga nokusetyenziswa kwezidakamizwa. Ukuba kukho umntu ophendulelayo ngokubuza isizathu sokuba ungenazo iziyobisi, impendulo engcono kakhulu kukuba, "Kukhethiweyo." Abantu abaye basebenzise ngokusemthethweni isisombululo sabo sonke kwisigqibo sokuzikhethela, ngoko kufuneka bahloniphe indawo yokujonga. Kuthetha ukuba unezizathu ezifanelekileyo zokunciphisa inambuzane, kodwa ukuba bodwa, kwaye avulekanga ingxoxo. Ukuba ufumana umbuzo ophezulu okanye uxinzelelo lokuthabatha udoti, phendula nje oko ushilo ngaphambili, uze uhambe.