Ukukhula kwintsapho engasebenziyo kunokujamelana nemingeni kamva
Abantwana abadala beengxilongo okanye ezinye iintlobo zabazali abangasebenziyo banokuchaphazeleka ngamava, kodwa iincwadi zokunqoba le mingeni zinokukunceda. Ukuba ungumntwana onjalo, unokuba nempawu zobuntu eziqhelekileyo kubantwana abadala abadakwa . Abantu abaninzi abakhuliswa kumakhaya anxilisayo kufuneka bahlangabezane neziphumo zokukhuliswa kwabo kubomi babo abadala , ngakumbi kwimisebenzi yabo, ubudlelwane kunye neenkqubo zokwenza izigqibo.
Uluhlu lweencwadi ezilandelayo lubonisa ukuba iimpawu ezinokuthi abantwana abadala abadala banxilisayo baphuhlise kunye neengcebiso ezifanelekileyo zokufunda indlela yokwenza izigqibo ezingcono zokuphila ubomi obuphilileyo.
1 - Abantwana abadala baTywala
Le ncwadi ethengiswa kakhulu nguJanet G. Woititz yowokuqala ukujongana neengxaki ezithile ezifunyenwe ngabo ba khuliswe emakhaya anxilisayo. Olu hlobo olwandisiweyo lubandakanya amava avela kwimvelaphi eyahlukeneyo yentsapho echaphazelekayo ababelana ngeempawu ezifanayo. Ngoku ungathenga iqoqo elipheleleyo leencwadi zikaDkt Jan zokukhupha umthamo ngomqulu owodwa: "I-ACOA Complete Bookbook: Abantwana abadala beeNxila ekhaya, emsebenzini kunye nothando."
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2 - Abantwana abadala: Iimfihlelo zeMindeni engasebenzi
Iintsapho ezinxilisayo azikho kuphela ezivelisa abantwana abadala abadala abaneempawu ezingasebenzi. Kule ncwadi, uJohn noLinda Friel bahlolisise indlela ukuphelela ukulungelelanisa, ukukhathazeka, ukunyamezela, ukuxinezeleka, kunye neengxaki zokwabelana ngemvakalelo kunokudala inkqubo yentsapho engasebenzi. Enye impawu zonke zeentsapho ezingasebenziyo kukuba zizama ukugcina iimfihlelo. Oko kuthetha ukuba abantwana banokudimazeka ukuba baxubushe ngokuxhatshazwa ngokomzimba, ngokwesondo, okanye kwimizimba yabo. Umfazi ngomtshato onogonyamelo uya kuguqa imivimbo kwaye azenzele kwihlabathi langaphandle ukuba ulwalamano olunothando.
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3 - Isikhokelo somntwana wabadala kwizinto 'eziqhelekileyo'
Enye yeempawu ezikhulile abantwana abakhulayo kwiintsapho ezingasebenziyo kukuba kufuneka baqikelele ukuba yiyiphi "evamile" kuba abanakho imodeli yokulandela. UJohn noLinda Friel babhala le ncwadana ebalulekileyo kubantwana abadala kumakhaya angasebenzi ukuba banike ingqondo engcono yimiba yokuziphatha, ubudlelwane kunye neendlela zokunxibelelana kubonakala ngathi. Sebenzisa le ncwadi ukufunda indlela yokuphila ubomi obunempilo.
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I-4 - i-Lifeskills yabantwana abadala
UJanet Woititz unikeza iingcebiso ezisebenzayo zokunceda abantwana abadala ukuba bafunde izakhono zobomi basisiseko, njengokuzimela, ukwenza izigqibo, ukulungisa iingxaki nokufunda indlela yokuthi "cha." Le ncwadi iqulethe imizekelo kunye nokuzivocavoca ukunceda abafundi basebenzise izakhono zabo ezintsha. Iminyaka engamashumi amabini anesihlanu emva kokupapashwa kokuqala le ncwadi isabalulekile kulabo ba khulele emakhaya angasebenzi.
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5 - Ukubuyisela: Isikhokelo sabaNtwana baBadala
UHerbert Gravitz noJulie D. Bowden bachaza uhambo lokubuyisela abantwana abadala abanxilisayo. Oku kubandakanya ukwenza ukuguquka ukusuka ekungazini kuya ekuqaliseni ukuhlanganiswa nokwamkela. Ababhali banikela isikhokelo ekuqaliseni ukuba yiyiphi imicimbi kunye neendlela zokonyango ezifanelekileyo kakhulu kubantwana abadala basezidakamizwa kunye neentsapho ezingasebenzi.
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6 - Ukulwa nobuhlobo obusondeleyo
Abantwana abadala beentsapho ezingasebenziyo bazama ukuphumeza ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kuba ubudlelwane kuba kuthatha amanyathelo afunekayo ukwenjenjalo ukuphikisana nezakhono zokuphila abazifundileyo xa bekhula. UJanet G. Woititz, onguvulindlela endle, uchaza uhambo olude lwabadala abantwana abanxila kunye nabanye abazali abaxhatshazwayo kufuneka baqale ukuvalelana ubudlelwane babo.
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I-7-Self-Sabotage Syndrome: Abantwana abadala kwiindawo zokusebenza
Abantwana abadala beentsapho ezingasebenziyo badla ukuchitha izinto xa baqala ukuhamba kakuhle. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kwindawo engasebenzi. Le ncwadi inikeza iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokufumana ibhalansi kunye nokuphucula ubudlelwane obuphilileyo kunye nesimo sengqondo emsebenzini.
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I-8 - Uluhlu lweMpahla yokuLahla: I-ACoA ivakalisa
UTony A., omnye wamalungu asekela abantwana abaBantu abaPhucukileyo bokuNyuka kokuNxila, wabhala "uLuhlu lokuLawula" lweempawu eziqhelekileyo zabantwana abadala. Kule ncwadi, amaqela kaTony kunye noDan F. ukubonelela kwangaphakathi "I-ACoA Experience".
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