Ukufa nokufa kuyindawo engenakukuphepha. Ingaba ujongene nokufa kwakho okanye ukufa komntu omthandayo, kukuqinisekileyo (kunye neerhafu, ngoko bathetha) ukuba ukufa kuya kungena ebomini bakho. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, abaninzi banokufumanisa ukuba abakulungele ukujongana nokufa kunye nentlungu elandela ukulahlekelwa ngumthandayo.
Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukulungiswa.
Umgca wexesha elide
Yinto encinci yokutshatyalaliswa ukuba uphumelele ekugugeni kwaye uphumelele ixesha elide, ukufa ngakumbi kuya kuba yinxalenye yamava akho obomi. Njengoko ngamnye wethu ekhula, sijamelana nabahlobo kunye nosapho abaya kuthi badlule ngenxa yengozi, ukugula okanye ukuguga nje. Umdala esiyifumanayo, abantu abaninzi esiya kubaziyo ngezifo ezingapheliyo nezigulane. Enye yeemava aqhelekileyo kulabo abanjwe bangakulungelele oku kuyenzeka ukuxinezeleka, okungekho into ephawulekayo ngokuqhelekileyo ekuguga. Ukuqaphela indlela oya kujamelana ngayo nokufa kubini isicatshulwa esilungeleyo sokuguga nesimo sengqondo sempilo esifanele sonke sisebenze kuyo.
Iingcali zokujongana nokufa nokufa
Kubonakala ukuba kukho abantu abathile bakufumanisa ukuba kulula ukuhlala uxolo kunye nokufa, nokuba ingafiki ngexesha okanye ekupheleni kobomi obude.
Kwabaninzi ndidibene namava am, esinye sengqondo esiphefumlelweyo ngokufa ndiyaqhubeka ndibuyela kwindoda encinane yinkwenkwana eyadlula. Leli bali liye lathi umama omncinci uthe umthandazo olula owenziwe into enje:
"Sawubona uSam, Siyabonga ngenxa yozuko lokuba ngumama wakho.
Ndiya kubuya kweli bali kuba ndiyayixabisa le ndlela yokucinga ngokufa. Ndiyathemba ukuba, xa sibhekene nokufa komntu othandekayo, ndiya kukwazi ukufikelela kweli nqanaba loxolo nokuqonda. Kubonakala nje ndiphilile kum.
Oko kwathiwa, nangona ungobuchule bokuphila ixesha elide, andinayo ingcali yokufa nokufa. Ngoko ke ndiya kukudlulisela kwizakhono zobuchule ezinokukwenza ukuba uqalise endleleni ekufumaneni ukuqonda okungcono kunye nendlela yokuphila nokufa.
Izixhobo zokulungiselela kunye nokujongana neNkqubo yokuDala
Inkqubo yokuDala iyisethi epheleleyo yezinto ezifunekayo ukunceda ukuqonda kunye nokujamelana nenkqubo yokufa, nokuba ingaba ngokuhamba ngokukhawuleza okanye ngokukhawuleza nangokukhawuleza. Into endiyayenzayo kukukhuthaza ukuba uhlangane kunye neengcamango kunye neemeko zokufa nokufa ngoku. Yiba nesicwangciso sendlela oya kusondela ngayo ukufa nokufa kunye noko uza kuzixelela xa umntu othandayo ehamba. Kuya kwenza ubomi bakho nobomi bakho bube mnandi kakhulu.